"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sad News About Our Friend @SW15

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I am still trying to process this but
sadly @SW15 passed away on October 26th. :(

He had a seizure while swimming. He was a great contributer here and is missed.

Hearts and prayers to his family and loved ones.

As the message advising this news stated:

"You just never know. Tomorrow is never guaranteed. Go out and live life."

RIP
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you know this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Where was SW 15 from and how old was he?
I want to say Phoenix? But not 100% sure. Early 40s.

I've been re-reading some of his posts. For some reason, they seem to have more value now that he's gone.

We had some really nice exchanges, the Christie Brinkley and Billy Joel threads and some others.

This is just the saddest news, still processing it. He was way too young...
 
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I want to say Phoenix? But not 100% sure. Early 40s.

I've been re-reading some of his posts. For some reason, they seem to have more value now that he's gone.

We had some really nice exchanges, the Christie Brinkley and Billy Joel threads and some others.

This is just the saddest news, still processing it. He was way too young...
damn rest in peace

he was friendly kind and caring judging by his posts on here
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damn sorry to hear life is precious
Still struggling with the loss of one of my mentors earlier this week
 

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holy crap…rest in peace bro…the good ones die way too soon. I had a lot friendly banters with that dude over the years, I hope he’s in a better place now, he seemed like a good dude, smart and meant well out here. I think the moderators should put up one of his memorable posts in The DJ Bible or in the archives or something.
 

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Never spoke to him directly, but we definitely have given reactions to eachothers' posts during the years.

Rest in Peace, brother.
 

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holy crap…rest in peace bro…the good ones die way too soon. I had a lot friendly banters with that dude over the years, I hope he’s in a better place now, he seemed like a good dude, smart and meant well out here. I think the moderators should put up one of his memorable posts in The DJ Bible or in the archives or something.
That’s a great idea. We chatted back & forth for years. Always a joy to talk to & I enjoyed his perspectives on things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Damn. That hit's hard. We were DMing each other on what seems to be his last day on here ;(
Smart dude. One of the few remaining posters who posts I was interested in reading, He always added meat to the bone in regards to his opinions and as @LTG71 says, there tended to be some depth to his posts that often added a perspective or explanation that i'd not considered.
RIP
 

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We were DMing each other on what seems to be his last day on here ;(
I misspoke in my OP. The message was sent on October 26th but apparently he died a month prior, not too long after his last post here.

>>I wanted to let you know in case someone asked, but SW15 died about a month ago. He was doing his regular mile swim and had a seizure. They found him in the pool at his apartment complex.<<

I cannot get this image of him in the pool out of my head!

It's hard. I had just lost another friend suddenly not too long ago after he developed a minor infection in his foot that became septic and killed him.

Makes you realize just how precious life is... and how short! For some shorter than others. Places a new perspective on things.

I also wonder if the seizure was caused by a precondition that might have been caught through a blood test or scan. This recently happened to me and I'm dealing with it. Not a seizure but another health issue and I'm gonna be ok because it was caught early.

I know in the US our healthcare system s*cks but please please get checked annually if.possible.

I hate to sound morbid but it might save your life!
 

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I also wonder if the seizure was caused by a precondition
there was a thread some time back from memory where people were wishing him well after some health issues. Possibly related?

Yeah, it's always very sobering when someone dies, especially when quite young. Even if you don't 'know' them. A while back, some random Z list celeb here in the UK died (young, good looking guy from reality TV) and his death randomly inspired me to go travelling around Europe for a bit. I pretty much read the story, thought about it for a few mins, and then started looking for hostels! Not sure why his death as opposed to someone elses made me suddenly book it, but I sometimes think about it. Sometimes, certain conditions just seem to be in place to 'snap us into reality' and make us think of our own mortality
 

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there was a thread some time back from memory where people were wishing him well after some health issues. Possibly related?
Now that you mention it, I recall that thread too.

I'm glad I created this thread so we can talk about it among those who knew him. It does help.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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