DreamyChick
Master Don Juan
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Sad
Lonely
Unlovely
Troubled
Lonely
Unlovely
Troubled
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
S.l.u.t
- Thread starter DreamyChick
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i want chocolate candy
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Women
Hoping
Ontop,
Riding
Everyone
Senseless
Hoping
Ontop,
Riding
Everyone
Senseless
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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Hi
Everyone
How
Are
You
All?
Everyone
How
Are
You
All?
DreamyChick
Master Don Juan
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Wow, I can't believe that Mr. Cassanova finally acknowledges my presence here after a year and a half. I could care less what you think. I just thought it was a clever acronym and food for thought. Go climb back into the linen closet.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
lol
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Boy, people would think you'd be happy he came out of the linen-closet to acknowledge you...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SELF-MASTERY
Banned
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Im still waiting on dream to come over and
give me
SOME
S-SIT
O-ON
M-MY
E-ERECTION
give me
SOME
S-SIT
O-ON
M-MY
E-ERECTION
Being
In
Total
Control of
Herself
Juvenile
Immature
Pr*ck
Protruding
Erection
Nightly
In
Search
Pathetic
Lonely
A$$hole
Yearning
Ass
The first one I've been saying for years...the last 3 I just thought up words for right now.
In
Total
Control of
Herself
Juvenile
Immature
Pr*ck
Protruding
Erection
Nightly
In
Search
Pathetic
Lonely
A$$hole
Yearning
Ass
The first one I've been saying for years...the last 3 I just thought up words for right now.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
T - Touch
I - It
T - Today!
S - SSSSSSSSSSSS
I - It
T - Today!
S - SSSSSSSSSSSS
spider_007
Master Don Juan
considering "slut" only applys to gurls, ware you trying to tell us something about your self. I'ts ok, let it all out
:cheer:"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DreamyChick
Master Don Juan
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Re: Re: S.l.u.t
Self- Mastery who are you again?
Wyld I like the first one, that's good.
No I wouldn't apply the term to myself, but people wonder why some women are promicuous so there you go.Originally posted by spider_007
considering "slut" only applys to gurls, ware you trying to tell us something about your self. I'ts ok, let it all out
Self- Mastery who are you again?
Wyld I like the first one, that's good.
Aztec
Master Don Juan
SSSSSSSSSSSSS
:crackup:
Very creative!
Evangenlion
Don Juan
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ADIDAS
All
Day
I
Dream
About
S-ex
I remember this one from KORN, a stupid song now, but back then it was great.
All
Day
I
Dream
About
S-ex
I remember this one from KORN, a stupid song now, but back then it was great.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Where's Gary Busey when you need him?