DreamyChick
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2002
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- 544
- Reaction score
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Sad
Lonely
Unlovely
Troubled
Lonely
Unlovely
Troubled
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
S.l.u.t
- Thread starter DreamyChick
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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- 47
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- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i want chocolate candy
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Women
Hoping
Ontop,
Riding
Everyone
Senseless
Hoping
Ontop,
Riding
Everyone
Senseless
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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- 4,366
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Hi
Everyone
How
Are
You
All?
Everyone
How
Are
You
All?
DreamyChick
Master Don Juan
- Joined
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Wow, I can't believe that Mr. Cassanova finally acknowledges my presence here after a year and a half. I could care less what you think. I just thought it was a clever acronym and food for thought. Go climb back into the linen closet.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
lol
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Boy, people would think you'd be happy he came out of the linen-closet to acknowledge you...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SELF-MASTERY
Banned
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Im still waiting on dream to come over and
give me
SOME
S-SIT
O-ON
M-MY
E-ERECTION
give me
SOME
S-SIT
O-ON
M-MY
E-ERECTION
Being
In
Total
Control of
Herself
Juvenile
Immature
Pr*ck
Protruding
Erection
Nightly
In
Search
Pathetic
Lonely
A$$hole
Yearning
Ass
The first one I've been saying for years...the last 3 I just thought up words for right now.
In
Total
Control of
Herself
Juvenile
Immature
Pr*ck
Protruding
Erection
Nightly
In
Search
Pathetic
Lonely
A$$hole
Yearning
Ass
The first one I've been saying for years...the last 3 I just thought up words for right now.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
T - Touch
I - It
T - Today!
S - SSSSSSSSSSSS
I - It
T - Today!
S - SSSSSSSSSSSS
spider_007
Master Don Juan
considering "slut" only applys to gurls, ware you trying to tell us something about your self. I'ts ok, let it all out
:cheer:"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DreamyChick
Master Don Juan
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Re: Re: S.l.u.t
Self- Mastery who are you again?
Wyld I like the first one, that's good.
No I wouldn't apply the term to myself, but people wonder why some women are promicuous so there you go.Originally posted by spider_007
considering "slut" only applys to gurls, ware you trying to tell us something about your self. I'ts ok, let it all out
Self- Mastery who are you again?
Wyld I like the first one, that's good.
Aztec
Master Don Juan
SSSSSSSSSSSSS
:crackup:
Very creative!
Evangenlion
Don Juan
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ADIDAS
All
Day
I
Dream
About
S-ex
I remember this one from KORN, a stupid song now, but back then it was great.
All
Day
I
Dream
About
S-ex
I remember this one from KORN, a stupid song now, but back then it was great.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Where's Gary Busey when you need him?