"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ryan Gosling
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
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Scaramouche
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I have reared three Boys and two girls...Gosling is correct in some of his observations...they are certainly different...Young Girls are wired for emotions,some Men never really get it and remain Emotional Pygmies all their lives...Better Worse?...Well that's like comparing Chalk with Cheese!
Colossus
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I also dont think one sex is more evolved that the other, but factually, a case could be made that men are the drivers of civilization and everything women use, consume, and take comfort in can be attributed to male invention.
I do a lot of well child exams at work. It is definitely evident that girls advance emotionally and in language/communication skills well before boys, and to some degree they probably exceed men for life in this regard.
That being said, i think men in general are more creative, driven, technically gifted, and PRODUCE tangible things other than just words and opinions. Look at people on the cutting edge of engineering, medicine, music, and industry---almost unilaterally male. Yes there are women pioneers but they are the minority in most fields. Women dominate languages, some of the arts, and modern organizational constructs like human resources and administrations---owing to their superior communication skills.
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I think cost will prevent this from ever becoming a reality. Plus dumb people will always fvck.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
taiyuu_otoko
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That's it more than anything. And you can bet anytime any of these hollywood heroes go for an interview, they are coached by their agents and business managers.
Besides, any dad that has two girls will see the world a LOT differently that red pill MTGOW types.
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Could you imagine the uproar if he had a boy and a girl. He then states the boy is better at blah blah than her and excels much faster at this and that? The public fan base outcry would be astronomical and call him a misogynist and yada yada. Would take a hit career wise. I think he's red pill, any dude that's a panty dropper like that has to be. Very smart business model to pander to his female fanbase
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sharkbeat
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I doubt it would ever happen. Estrogen and testosterone need each other. Both genders need each other. You can't say that one is superior to another. You'd come up to that stupid conclusion if you have a very linear, one-dimensional thinking. Men and women are different for sure, but being different does not mean one is less or more than the other. Without men, women will collapse on their own, and likewise, without women, we would also collapse on our own.
Bring in any kind of advancement in science. It won't happen. You can already see the signs it won't happen. Women are not happier today than they were 50 years ago, as a matter of fact, they get more miserable. We are not like simple cells that reproduce by splitting ourselves.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LiveFreeX
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Its kinda weird that even Screech the nerd loser on Saved By The Bell ended up going to jail for being a nice guy.
I wonder if we compiled a list of all the TV geeks and compared them to their real personalities how much effect did playing their character have on them in real life.
LiveFreeX
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Guys like Michael Cera, Jaleel White, Alfonso Riberio. It seems like white guys that play nerds on TV, remain woman pandering nerds, whereas Black guys who play nerds come out alright.
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Jesus Christ, unrelated but Zack Morris was half asian!?! 0:44