"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ryan Gosling
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
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Scaramouche
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I have reared three Boys and two girls...Gosling is correct in some of his observations...they are certainly different...Young Girls are wired for emotions,some Men never really get it and remain Emotional Pygmies all their lives...Better Worse?...Well that's like comparing Chalk with Cheese!
Colossus
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I also dont think one sex is more evolved that the other, but factually, a case could be made that men are the drivers of civilization and everything women use, consume, and take comfort in can be attributed to male invention.
I do a lot of well child exams at work. It is definitely evident that girls advance emotionally and in language/communication skills well before boys, and to some degree they probably exceed men for life in this regard.
That being said, i think men in general are more creative, driven, technically gifted, and PRODUCE tangible things other than just words and opinions. Look at people on the cutting edge of engineering, medicine, music, and industry---almost unilaterally male. Yes there are women pioneers but they are the minority in most fields. Women dominate languages, some of the arts, and modern organizational constructs like human resources and administrations---owing to their superior communication skills.
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I think cost will prevent this from ever becoming a reality. Plus dumb people will always fvck.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
taiyuu_otoko
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That's it more than anything. And you can bet anytime any of these hollywood heroes go for an interview, they are coached by their agents and business managers.
Besides, any dad that has two girls will see the world a LOT differently that red pill MTGOW types.
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Could you imagine the uproar if he had a boy and a girl. He then states the boy is better at blah blah than her and excels much faster at this and that? The public fan base outcry would be astronomical and call him a misogynist and yada yada. Would take a hit career wise. I think he's red pill, any dude that's a panty dropper like that has to be. Very smart business model to pander to his female fanbase
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sharkbeat
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I doubt it would ever happen. Estrogen and testosterone need each other. Both genders need each other. You can't say that one is superior to another. You'd come up to that stupid conclusion if you have a very linear, one-dimensional thinking. Men and women are different for sure, but being different does not mean one is less or more than the other. Without men, women will collapse on their own, and likewise, without women, we would also collapse on our own.
Bring in any kind of advancement in science. It won't happen. You can already see the signs it won't happen. Women are not happier today than they were 50 years ago, as a matter of fact, they get more miserable. We are not like simple cells that reproduce by splitting ourselves.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LiveFreeX
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Its kinda weird that even Screech the nerd loser on Saved By The Bell ended up going to jail for being a nice guy.
I wonder if we compiled a list of all the TV geeks and compared them to their real personalities how much effect did playing their character have on them in real life.
LiveFreeX
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Guys like Michael Cera, Jaleel White, Alfonso Riberio. It seems like white guys that play nerds on TV, remain woman pandering nerds, whereas Black guys who play nerds come out alright.
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Jesus Christ, unrelated but Zack Morris was half asian!?! 0:44