"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Scaramouche
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I have reared three Boys and two girls...Gosling is correct in some of his observations...they are certainly different...Young Girls are wired for emotions,some Men never really get it and remain Emotional Pygmies all their lives...Better Worse?...Well that's like comparing Chalk with Cheese!
Colossus
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I also dont think one sex is more evolved that the other, but factually, a case could be made that men are the drivers of civilization and everything women use, consume, and take comfort in can be attributed to male invention.
I do a lot of well child exams at work. It is definitely evident that girls advance emotionally and in language/communication skills well before boys, and to some degree they probably exceed men for life in this regard.
That being said, i think men in general are more creative, driven, technically gifted, and PRODUCE tangible things other than just words and opinions. Look at people on the cutting edge of engineering, medicine, music, and industry---almost unilaterally male. Yes there are women pioneers but they are the minority in most fields. Women dominate languages, some of the arts, and modern organizational constructs like human resources and administrations---owing to their superior communication skills.
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I think cost will prevent this from ever becoming a reality. Plus dumb people will always fvck.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
taiyuu_otoko
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That's it more than anything. And you can bet anytime any of these hollywood heroes go for an interview, they are coached by their agents and business managers.
Besides, any dad that has two girls will see the world a LOT differently that red pill MTGOW types.
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Could you imagine the uproar if he had a boy and a girl. He then states the boy is better at blah blah than her and excels much faster at this and that? The public fan base outcry would be astronomical and call him a misogynist and yada yada. Would take a hit career wise. I think he's red pill, any dude that's a panty dropper like that has to be. Very smart business model to pander to his female fanbase
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I doubt it would ever happen. Estrogen and testosterone need each other. Both genders need each other. You can't say that one is superior to another. You'd come up to that stupid conclusion if you have a very linear, one-dimensional thinking. Men and women are different for sure, but being different does not mean one is less or more than the other. Without men, women will collapse on their own, and likewise, without women, we would also collapse on our own.
Bring in any kind of advancement in science. It won't happen. You can already see the signs it won't happen. Women are not happier today than they were 50 years ago, as a matter of fact, they get more miserable. We are not like simple cells that reproduce by splitting ourselves.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LiveFreeX
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Its kinda weird that even Screech the nerd loser on Saved By The Bell ended up going to jail for being a nice guy.
I wonder if we compiled a list of all the TV geeks and compared them to their real personalities how much effect did playing their character have on them in real life.
LiveFreeX
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Guys like Michael Cera, Jaleel White, Alfonso Riberio. It seems like white guys that play nerds on TV, remain woman pandering nerds, whereas Black guys who play nerds come out alright.
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Jesus Christ, unrelated but Zack Morris was half asian!?! 0:44