"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rules for texting women

NewKidOnTheBlock

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Im noticing alot of guys are commenting on why there should even be rules to this...
I was preparing for a long winded reply but im going to stuff it for now (you can all breathe a sigh of relief now). In short all im going to say is from experience, listening to alot of these rules would've saved me alot of learning time (im a self made man btw). The problem with just listening to rules is that you dont learn WHY theyre there, and DONT GET ME WRONG, every girl is different so the rules should always be bent a little bit depending on the girl! (ie: ive met a few text-a-holics and not texting is equivalent to saying goodbye with these girls).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

teacha

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bullshit advice...

rules for texting women, SERIOUSLY!? the only 'dating' rules a man should live by are his own only and not some guy's on the internet. Its your life, set your own rules.
 

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teacha said:
bullshit advice...

rules for texting women, SERIOUSLY!? the only 'dating' rules a man should live by are his own and not some guy's on the internet. Its your life, set your own rules.
This attitude, it's like the advice that basically says "you are enough" and "just be a cool guy and women will come to you", or "forget about rules, call her whenever you feel like it". Good advice at its core, but that advice won't work for newbies who have no idea what to do.

Example, in 99% of cases, you don't want to have a conversation over text. Yes, you can if you WANT to, and an experienced guy who has his sh!t together can do a fine job and make it a good time for all involved, but a newbie is probably just going to fvck things up for himself.

For newbies, they are RULES.
For guys who are good women, I would call them smart guidelines.
 
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