"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rule regarding timing of texts?

The LadyKiller

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A couple of nights ago, I sent a C&F text to a HB I'm getting to know (around 11pm, when most people in their early/mid 20s are still awake). I woke up the following day to see she responded with her own C&F comment - which came in at 5:00 in the morning. Because there is a timestamp on our texts, I poked fun at her regarding the timing of the text. Her story was that she was up early for a flight.

Blame this on my naivety of text game, but is this normal behavior? While she may have simply seen it then and responded accordingly, one of my buds says that his wife works odd hours, but she's not sending texts that late/early to just anyone. Years ago, a girl I went to college with responded to a joke I made at 4am, and we eventually dated for a couple of months. Is there any correlation between odd-timed texts and significance? (and I don't mean obvious things like drunk dials or booty calls).

This HB recently got out of a lengthy relationship and I have a few other plates, so while I have things going on, this caught my attention. I figured I'd post it here to see what you all thought.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mikey2012

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Why do you care what time the text came in?
Maybe she just finished banging some dude.
If you are already invested so much at this early stage then you are going have the rough ride...
 

Meisterman

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I don't think you should have mentioned it to her. It just shows that you care about these things and/or pay attention to them. When really you shouldn't give two fu*ks about it or invest an ounce of energy wondering why she sent it at that time.
 

JohnnyStorm

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I think if she's replying at 4am etc, it does show that she's interested.
However, it's not like you can take that interest to the bank and cash it in....
 

The LadyKiller

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Thanks for the responses to clear that up. I was curious about the text-timing as a whole and if it carried any significance, but I can't and won't take the results to heart. More of an observation than anything - though the suggestion she could be interested is clearly a good thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mikey2012

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Like I said she could have just finished suking some guys covk. Maybe she's being polite ... Wouldn't read too much into it..
 

Rainman4707

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Yeah I wouldn't let I worry you. I work nightshift & I don't send women messages in unsociable hours. The way is see it is I want her to receive text when she's feeling good. Sending her one at 3am might piss her off.
 

The LadyKiller

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
5am is not the typical ****sucking time....
Hahaha, well put. HB was visiting family in her hometown, so unless there's some odd family relations going on, she wasn't getting down.
 
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