"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Today one my female friends(2) introduced me to this HB9 and a guy with them,the guy is totaly cool,he did not **** block or one up me or any of that ****. Situation is once i saw that 9 i almost immediatly knew the type of attuide im about to get,she had that sense that what ever she says must be right,i was kinda annoyed by this but i kept it cool,so i crack a joke with one of my femal friends and she gets all fking definsive and started bashing on me,b1tch i wasnt even talking to you and i was clearly joking,anyways i turned my head towards her and told her to shut the fk up with a neutral stare and she was like "how could you?",my other female friend started to make things cooler by changing the subject,then ofcourse suddenly HB9 shows all signs of attraction to the other dude and i couldnt help but to laugh at her stupid attempts. Id still smash tho,is it a burned bridge?
Kendrick:"b1tch be humble"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dont let a woman affect your frame. Its not a lost cause, but you are in the hole.
 

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Dont let a woman affect your frame. Its not a lost cause, but you are in the hole.
If i go back in time id tell her to shut the fk up again lmao,i mean how should i go around this
 

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If i go back in time id tell her to shut the fk up again lmao,i mean how should i go around this
You let her bashing get to you. I mean, how bad was it? And what did you say that was offensive, especially if one girl didn't mind but the other did? Being outright with anyone never does any good in these situations. Of a woman was being rude, I would probably be more subtle and flip it back on her. There was obviously something done before for her to feel she could challenge you
 

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Why would you smash it? To show her the place? :p I mean...**** her, man. There are other gorgeous chicks that are much more friendly. Don't become like the girls who like bad boys LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why get angry? It shows that her bad behavior affected you which tells her that you are already invested despite not knowing her. You gave her bad behavior power of your emotions.

While you shouldn't take a woman's crap there are much more effective ways to make her look stupid, petty, judgmental etc.
 

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You let her bashing get to you. I mean, how bad was it? And what did you say that was offensive, especially if one girl didn't mind but the other did? Being outright with anyone never does any good in these situations. Of a woman was being rude, I would probably be more subtle and flip it back on her. There was obviously something done before for her to feel she could challenge you
I negged my female friend and she was cool with it,this 9 was defending her.
 

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Why get angry? It shows that her bad behavior affected you which tells her that you are already invested despite not knowing her. You gave her bad behavior power of your emotions.

While you shouldn't take a woman's crap there are much more effective ways to make her look stupid, petty, judgmental etc.
Wowowow i was not angry at fkin all
 
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