"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Today one my female friends(2) introduced me to this HB9 and a guy with them,the guy is totaly cool,he did not **** block or one up me or any of that ****. Situation is once i saw that 9 i almost immediatly knew the type of attuide im about to get,she had that sense that what ever she says must be right,i was kinda annoyed by this but i kept it cool,so i crack a joke with one of my femal friends and she gets all fking definsive and started bashing on me,b1tch i wasnt even talking to you and i was clearly joking,anyways i turned my head towards her and told her to shut the fk up with a neutral stare and she was like "how could you?",my other female friend started to make things cooler by changing the subject,then ofcourse suddenly HB9 shows all signs of attraction to the other dude and i couldnt help but to laugh at her stupid attempts. Id still smash tho,is it a burned bridge?
Kendrick:"b1tch be humble"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dont let a woman affect your frame. Its not a lost cause, but you are in the hole.
 
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Roober said:
Dont let a woman affect your frame. Its not a lost cause, but you are in the hole.
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If i go back in time id tell her to shut the fk up again lmao,i mean how should i go around this
 
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C00lAF said:
If i go back in time id tell her to shut the fk up again lmao,i mean how should i go around this
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You let her bashing get to you. I mean, how bad was it? And what did you say that was offensive, especially if one girl didn't mind but the other did? Being outright with anyone never does any good in these situations. Of a woman was being rude, I would probably be more subtle and flip it back on her. There was obviously something done before for her to feel she could challenge you
 
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Why would you smash it? To show her the place? :p I mean...**** her, man. There are other gorgeous chicks that are much more friendly. Don't become like the girls who like bad boys LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why get angry? It shows that her bad behavior affected you which tells her that you are already invested despite not knowing her. You gave her bad behavior power of your emotions.

While you shouldn't take a woman's crap there are much more effective ways to make her look stupid, petty, judgmental etc.
 
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Roober said:
You let her bashing get to you. I mean, how bad was it? And what did you say that was offensive, especially if one girl didn't mind but the other did? Being outright with anyone never does any good in these situations. Of a woman was being rude, I would probably be more subtle and flip it back on her. There was obviously something done before for her to feel she could challenge you
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I negged my female friend and she was cool with it,this 9 was defending her.
 
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SuckItUp said:
Why get angry? It shows that her bad behavior affected you which tells her that you are already invested despite not knowing her. You gave her bad behavior power of your emotions.

While you shouldn't take a woman's crap there are much more effective ways to make her look stupid, petty, judgmental etc.
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Wowowow i was not angry at fkin all
 
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