"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Espi said:
I know you're learning...but rememeber that you will never fvuck a girl who knows that you're trying too hard. Your calling her from a remote location reeks of immense fear and desperation...contrary to what you've been taught, persistence is for losers.
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persistance is for losers?? .......ok...... :confused:


I will admit that calling on the work phone was probably not the best idea... but atleast it was an idea and had a chance so who gives a fvck...

We want to lay girls... We will do things that arent normal compared to social conditioned actions in hopes that our different ways will get us laid way way more often then the average joe.
Of course we have to be tactful about it. cool. smart. fun. sexual. But we are not normal, We are DJs... exciting and different. We create are own realities.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Persistence is not for losers. It really does work, as long as there is some kind of attraction.

I think maybe you are out of that chicks league. Your callback convo was hilarious, she couldn't keep up, plus she was at work. She froze, and maybe even froze you out on purpose, because she couldn't keep up. She lacks the humor/wit/grace you have.

I say next time you go back, don't even acknowlege her AT ALL, until maybe the last minute. Then don't even look at her, just say "hey midget." maybe give her a wink. But that's it.

It can just be a passing inside joke for yourself now.
 
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It was a good shot, even though you don't have a number to show for it.

You'll always have my respect for manning up and going for the throat. Honestly just having the balls to ask for the number puts you ahead of a lot of guys on these boards.
 
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This thread really needs to be CLOSED NOW. It's a complete waste of bandwidth. Let's all stop comforting Verysuave for his failure......and allow him to finally LEARN from it!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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