"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Randallpink83

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Espi said:
I know you're learning...but rememeber that you will never fvuck a girl who knows that you're trying too hard. Your calling her from a remote location reeks of immense fear and desperation...contrary to what you've been taught, persistence is for losers.
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persistance is for losers?? .......ok...... :confused:


I will admit that calling on the work phone was probably not the best idea... but atleast it was an idea and had a chance so who gives a fvck...

We want to lay girls... We will do things that arent normal compared to social conditioned actions in hopes that our different ways will get us laid way way more often then the average joe.
Of course we have to be tactful about it. cool. smart. fun. sexual. But we are not normal, We are DJs... exciting and different. We create are own realities.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Persistence is not for losers. It really does work, as long as there is some kind of attraction.

I think maybe you are out of that chicks league. Your callback convo was hilarious, she couldn't keep up, plus she was at work. She froze, and maybe even froze you out on purpose, because she couldn't keep up. She lacks the humor/wit/grace you have.

I say next time you go back, don't even acknowlege her AT ALL, until maybe the last minute. Then don't even look at her, just say "hey midget." maybe give her a wink. But that's it.

It can just be a passing inside joke for yourself now.
 
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It was a good shot, even though you don't have a number to show for it.

You'll always have my respect for manning up and going for the throat. Honestly just having the balls to ask for the number puts you ahead of a lot of guys on these boards.
 
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This thread really needs to be CLOSED NOW. It's a complete waste of bandwidth. Let's all stop comforting Verysuave for his failure......and allow him to finally LEARN from it!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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