"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RR: (rejection report) Straight Up REJECTED By Pale White Chick HB7

Randallpink83

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Espi said:
I know you're learning...but rememeber that you will never fvuck a girl who knows that you're trying too hard. Your calling her from a remote location reeks of immense fear and desperation...contrary to what you've been taught, persistence is for losers.

persistance is for losers?? .......ok...... :confused:


I will admit that calling on the work phone was probably not the best idea... but atleast it was an idea and had a chance so who gives a fvck...

We want to lay girls... We will do things that arent normal compared to social conditioned actions in hopes that our different ways will get us laid way way more often then the average joe.
Of course we have to be tactful about it. cool. smart. fun. sexual. But we are not normal, We are DJs... exciting and different. We create are own realities.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Persistence is not for losers. It really does work, as long as there is some kind of attraction.

I think maybe you are out of that chicks league. Your callback convo was hilarious, she couldn't keep up, plus she was at work. She froze, and maybe even froze you out on purpose, because she couldn't keep up. She lacks the humor/wit/grace you have.

I say next time you go back, don't even acknowlege her AT ALL, until maybe the last minute. Then don't even look at her, just say "hey midget." maybe give her a wink. But that's it.

It can just be a passing inside joke for yourself now.
 

Jaxon

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It was a good shot, even though you don't have a number to show for it.

You'll always have my respect for manning up and going for the throat. Honestly just having the balls to ask for the number puts you ahead of a lot of guys on these boards.
 

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This thread really needs to be CLOSED NOW. It's a complete waste of bandwidth. Let's all stop comforting Verysuave for his failure......and allow him to finally LEARN from it!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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