"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Randallpink83

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Espi said:
I know you're learning...but rememeber that you will never fvuck a girl who knows that you're trying too hard. Your calling her from a remote location reeks of immense fear and desperation...contrary to what you've been taught, persistence is for losers.

persistance is for losers?? .......ok...... :confused:


I will admit that calling on the work phone was probably not the best idea... but atleast it was an idea and had a chance so who gives a fvck...

We want to lay girls... We will do things that arent normal compared to social conditioned actions in hopes that our different ways will get us laid way way more often then the average joe.
Of course we have to be tactful about it. cool. smart. fun. sexual. But we are not normal, We are DJs... exciting and different. We create are own realities.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Persistence is not for losers. It really does work, as long as there is some kind of attraction.

I think maybe you are out of that chicks league. Your callback convo was hilarious, she couldn't keep up, plus she was at work. She froze, and maybe even froze you out on purpose, because she couldn't keep up. She lacks the humor/wit/grace you have.

I say next time you go back, don't even acknowlege her AT ALL, until maybe the last minute. Then don't even look at her, just say "hey midget." maybe give her a wink. But that's it.

It can just be a passing inside joke for yourself now.
 

Jaxon

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It was a good shot, even though you don't have a number to show for it.

You'll always have my respect for manning up and going for the throat. Honestly just having the balls to ask for the number puts you ahead of a lot of guys on these boards.
 

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This thread really needs to be CLOSED NOW. It's a complete waste of bandwidth. Let's all stop comforting Verysuave for his failure......and allow him to finally LEARN from it!!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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