"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Routine for shoulders?

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I'm pretty happy with my all over development but I am starting to lag in the shoulder area so I'm thinking I will break my arm day in half and do tris with chest and bis with back and add a shoulder day.

The routine I've been on doesn't have a huge focus on shoulders.

Anyone got a good shoulder day routine?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I find dumbbell movements most effective. They cause no "impingement" or binding of joints thru the range of motion. Here goes a few:

1. Dumbell Military press
2. Lateral Raise with Dumbell
3. Dumbell shrugs

Another week:
1. Lateral raise, less weight a few more reps
2. Front raise
3. Dumbell shrugs

Upgright rows put the joints in a bad position, I avoid it. As you age these things pile up and will be nags when it gets cold outside and stuff. You just don't wanna mess it up in the first place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I personally believe that moderation is the key when it comes to working delts. They are a small muscle group so I don't need to use heavy weights. Plus, chest press hits the shoulders on its own.

Only time I'll use heavy weights is when doing shrugs.

I do Arnold presses with 30-lb. DBs max.
Side lat raises 20 lb. DBs max. Often I won't even lift heavier than 15s.
Shrugs 90 lb DBs max but 65-70 lb DBs with 15-20 rep range works well.
Yeah, go heavy enough to get gains, but never go to heavy. Your shoulder joint has more range of motion than any other joint in your body and because of that, it is technically the weakest. One small error in form could mean that you tore your rotator cuff.
 

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Gironda DB Swings supersetted with side lateral raises have been the single most effective shoulder workout I've ever tried, and I've tried almost all of them. Do those twice a week for 6 weeks and your shoulders will get a LOT bigger.
 

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If you want to bust a shoulder plateau, I suggest Jerks. Helps you push some heavy weight with the help of the rest of your body. Might be just what you need to shock the muscles.
 

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My girlfriend rubbing oil into them while rubbing her naked chest against my back makes my shoulders (and lots of other bits) feel GREAT. :) Doesn't make my shoulders bigger but hey who cares.
 

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everyone is posting about shoulder pressing and lateral raises. All very important. But thats only half your shoulder. If you want full capped shoulders you need to complete it by hitting rear delts HARD. at least two rear delt exercises per workout. I like bent over reverse flys. (look up athlean x he has some good variations on form and such) and also face pulls with the rope. Also, the pec deck machine that reverses into rear delt fly machine too. For shoulder press focus on getting super strong. Reverse pyramid training, heaviest set first lower reps to lightest set higher reps. Hit shoulders twice a week, key to having an impressive physique
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seated military press
Side raises
Shrugs

But thats only half your shoulder. If you want full capped shoulders you need to complete it by hitting rear delts HARD.
Bro science. Chicks don't look at rear delts
 

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Overhead Press 3 x 5, 1 x 3, 1 x 1 (until failure)
Upright Rows supersetted with Lateral Raises 3 x 8 - 12
Front Raises 3 x 8 - 12
Lying Rear Delt Raises 3 x 8 - 12
Face Pulls 3 x 8 - 12

It should be noted that the deltoids contain androgen receptors meaning it is difficult to tear the muscle in that area because of how the muscle fibers in that area are designed. If you see anyone with "3D", bulging deltoids that seem disproportionate or even cartoonish looking, then there's a good chance that person is on performance enhancing drugs or gear. Do not let this discourage you. Do your best.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you see anyone with "3D", bulging deltoids that seem disproportionate or even cartoonish looking, then there's a good chance that person is on performance enhancing drugs or gear. Do not let this discourage you. Do your best.
Why, because delts grow faster and bigger than any other muscle when on gear. Remember, eat CLEN, TREN hard folks
 

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Guy in photo in post #17 is me in 2014, and even though I used steroids 2005 & 2006, I got my rear delts in 2014 without the juice. Lots of pullups, deads, rows...lots of cardio...and a very particularly "strict" diet.
Your delts look natural and they are attainable natural. I'm referring to these kinds of deltoids





Naturally, at best your delts should look like this

 

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I can spot a geared delt a mile away
 

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Lots of guys spend too much time on chest and abs and zero time on the back. Doing this creates imbalance.
2nd this ^^^^.

I do back / chest in 2:1 ratio. Your back is bigger than your chest. My bench actually goes up when I do back more.

Weighted Pullups, Pendlay Rows, Overhead Press, and Bench Press. Everything in the shoulder is covered with those.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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