"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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alwayslead8821

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Alright so I think I might be dealing with my oneitis but I'm not sure if its over yet. When we first started dating I was vvvvvery afc and I went back and forth from being smooth to afc. It was realllllly a good learning experience because every time I was to much of a "nice guy" did not lead and be a man she slowly lost interest. Then I would move to ****y funny lead (be a man) and use kino and she really liked me.

What ended up happening is she was tired of how I would be so back in forth from being really fun to awkward. I know I was i just got out of a 2 year relationship and jjjjust found this site. What we ended up saying is that we would hang out in like a month or so just so we could get our sh!t together.

I figured it was over but I have had some pretty clear signs that she is still interested. Like still getting a hold of me etc. The only problem is she has several different guys interested in her so I'm not sure what to do.

I'm doing a freeze out right now for a couple days, she knows that she really likes the real me and not that Awkward frustrated chump that I would turn into every once in awhile.

I have learned not to make the mistakes I was doing but I just need advice on how to keep her interest especially with other guys stepping up to the plate. The last time we talked I made it sound like I didn't give a sh!t about anything. Then following a freeze out I was hoping to increase her interest but I'm not sure what to say/do after that and if that was a good idea.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Keep your options open with other girls... it will make your "alpha" come out more naturally- rather then pretending not to care. They notice.

The next time you see her go BE A MAN. Take control, lead, and don't worry one ounce what she thinks.

And stay flirty and fun... DO NOT ask her about the other guys... or what her feeling for you are... Just stay fun and show her a good time
 
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alwayslead8821

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Yeah that was my problem at first, I was worrying way to much what she was thinking. That is my main thing that I learned, just assume attraction and be an leader.

Do you think the freeze out for a while is a good idea? I thought it might come of as I'm pissed that she is talking to other guys. Which wouldn't help but I don't think it came off like that.

Thanks for the advice guys
 
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