“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alwayslead8821

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Alright so I think I might be dealing with my oneitis but I'm not sure if its over yet. When we first started dating I was vvvvvery afc and I went back and forth from being smooth to afc. It was realllllly a good learning experience because every time I was to much of a "nice guy" did not lead and be a man she slowly lost interest. Then I would move to ****y funny lead (be a man) and use kino and she really liked me.

What ended up happening is she was tired of how I would be so back in forth from being really fun to awkward. I know I was i just got out of a 2 year relationship and jjjjust found this site. What we ended up saying is that we would hang out in like a month or so just so we could get our sh!t together.

I figured it was over but I have had some pretty clear signs that she is still interested. Like still getting a hold of me etc. The only problem is she has several different guys interested in her so I'm not sure what to do.

I'm doing a freeze out right now for a couple days, she knows that she really likes the real me and not that Awkward frustrated chump that I would turn into every once in awhile.

I have learned not to make the mistakes I was doing but I just need advice on how to keep her interest especially with other guys stepping up to the plate. The last time we talked I made it sound like I didn't give a sh!t about anything. Then following a freeze out I was hoping to increase her interest but I'm not sure what to say/do after that and if that was a good idea.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Keep your options open with other girls... it will make your "alpha" come out more naturally- rather then pretending not to care. They notice.

The next time you see her go BE A MAN. Take control, lead, and don't worry one ounce what she thinks.

And stay flirty and fun... DO NOT ask her about the other guys... or what her feeling for you are... Just stay fun and show her a good time
 
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Yeah that was my problem at first, I was worrying way to much what she was thinking. That is my main thing that I learned, just assume attraction and be an leader.

Do you think the freeze out for a while is a good idea? I thought it might come of as I'm pissed that she is talking to other guys. Which wouldn't help but I don't think it came off like that.

Thanks for the advice guys
 
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