"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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alwayslead8821

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Alright so I think I might be dealing with my oneitis but I'm not sure if its over yet. When we first started dating I was vvvvvery afc and I went back and forth from being smooth to afc. It was realllllly a good learning experience because every time I was to much of a "nice guy" did not lead and be a man she slowly lost interest. Then I would move to ****y funny lead (be a man) and use kino and she really liked me.

What ended up happening is she was tired of how I would be so back in forth from being really fun to awkward. I know I was i just got out of a 2 year relationship and jjjjust found this site. What we ended up saying is that we would hang out in like a month or so just so we could get our sh!t together.

I figured it was over but I have had some pretty clear signs that she is still interested. Like still getting a hold of me etc. The only problem is she has several different guys interested in her so I'm not sure what to do.

I'm doing a freeze out right now for a couple days, she knows that she really likes the real me and not that Awkward frustrated chump that I would turn into every once in awhile.

I have learned not to make the mistakes I was doing but I just need advice on how to keep her interest especially with other guys stepping up to the plate. The last time we talked I made it sound like I didn't give a sh!t about anything. Then following a freeze out I was hoping to increase her interest but I'm not sure what to say/do after that and if that was a good idea.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Keep your options open with other girls... it will make your "alpha" come out more naturally- rather then pretending not to care. They notice.

The next time you see her go BE A MAN. Take control, lead, and don't worry one ounce what she thinks.

And stay flirty and fun... DO NOT ask her about the other guys... or what her feeling for you are... Just stay fun and show her a good time
 
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alwayslead8821

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Yeah that was my problem at first, I was worrying way to much what she was thinking. That is my main thing that I learned, just assume attraction and be an leader.

Do you think the freeze out for a while is a good idea? I thought it might come of as I'm pissed that she is talking to other guys. Which wouldn't help but I don't think it came off like that.

Thanks for the advice guys
 
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