alwayslead8821
Don Juan
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- Jan 8, 2010
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Alright so I think I might be dealing with my oneitis but I'm not sure if its over yet. When we first started dating I was vvvvvery afc and I went back and forth from being smooth to afc. It was realllllly a good learning experience because every time I was to much of a "nice guy" did not lead and be a man she slowly lost interest. Then I would move to ****y funny lead (be a man) and use kino and she really liked me.
What ended up happening is she was tired of how I would be so back in forth from being really fun to awkward. I know I was i just got out of a 2 year relationship and jjjjust found this site. What we ended up saying is that we would hang out in like a month or so just so we could get our sh!t together.
I figured it was over but I have had some pretty clear signs that she is still interested. Like still getting a hold of me etc. The only problem is she has several different guys interested in her so I'm not sure what to do.
I'm doing a freeze out right now for a couple days, she knows that she really likes the real me and not that Awkward frustrated chump that I would turn into every once in awhile.
I have learned not to make the mistakes I was doing but I just need advice on how to keep her interest especially with other guys stepping up to the plate. The last time we talked I made it sound like I didn't give a sh!t about anything. Then following a freeze out I was hoping to increase her interest but I'm not sure what to say/do after that and if that was a good idea.
What ended up happening is she was tired of how I would be so back in forth from being really fun to awkward. I know I was i just got out of a 2 year relationship and jjjjust found this site. What we ended up saying is that we would hang out in like a month or so just so we could get our sh!t together.
I figured it was over but I have had some pretty clear signs that she is still interested. Like still getting a hold of me etc. The only problem is she has several different guys interested in her so I'm not sure what to do.
I'm doing a freeze out right now for a couple days, she knows that she really likes the real me and not that Awkward frustrated chump that I would turn into every once in awhile.
I have learned not to make the mistakes I was doing but I just need advice on how to keep her interest especially with other guys stepping up to the plate. The last time we talked I made it sound like I didn't give a sh!t about anything. Then following a freeze out I was hoping to increase her interest but I'm not sure what to say/do after that and if that was a good idea.
