"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rotator cuff injury

BetterCallSaul

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So a little over a week ago I apparently injured my shoulder, i suspect my rotator cuff. I've never actually sustained this type of injury before so it's new to me. Best i can figure it happened when I was doing either military press or bent over rows with some additional weight. I always try to put the weight on slow, working my total numbers up slowly. Same thing this time, maybe I just had bad form. I did not feel the pain until a couple hours after my workout, and now here it is over a week later and my shoulder still hurts.

It is not severe, I can still lift things, hell i even worked out just the other day, mainly doing curls but bench press is not something I'm willing to risk right now while it's hurting. I'm on the fence about seeing a doctor because I'm thinking all they will tell me is to do certain exercises for a week or so. The soreness is really getting old though and while it doesn't cause me to lose sleep, it has started to interrupt it.

Should I just try doing certain exercises every day? I need some advice from people who have had this same injury.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BackInTheGame78

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Look into shoulder rehab workouts....specifically I'd recommend Dynamic Blackburn excercises
 
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