"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rotator cuff injury

BetterCallSaul

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So a little over a week ago I apparently injured my shoulder, i suspect my rotator cuff. I've never actually sustained this type of injury before so it's new to me. Best i can figure it happened when I was doing either military press or bent over rows with some additional weight. I always try to put the weight on slow, working my total numbers up slowly. Same thing this time, maybe I just had bad form. I did not feel the pain until a couple hours after my workout, and now here it is over a week later and my shoulder still hurts.

It is not severe, I can still lift things, hell i even worked out just the other day, mainly doing curls but bench press is not something I'm willing to risk right now while it's hurting. I'm on the fence about seeing a doctor because I'm thinking all they will tell me is to do certain exercises for a week or so. The soreness is really getting old though and while it doesn't cause me to lose sleep, it has started to interrupt it.

Should I just try doing certain exercises every day? I need some advice from people who have had this same injury.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BackInTheGame78

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Look into shoulder rehab workouts....specifically I'd recommend Dynamic Blackburn excercises
 
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