"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Roommate increasing my standards

mtlwlu

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Im moving in with a buddy of mine next year for school, hes recently gotten into the game, and doing really well, hes a personal trainer and gets HB 8+ constantly when he goes out, the thing is next year I have a feeling that no matter what girl I bring home when we go out, his girl will always be hotter or he'll find a way to say I can do better.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Splendidostring

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WTF dude....WHO CARES if your roomate gets some HB something....just get the girl you want. Do not compare yourself to your roomate, it's pointless.
 

rushing dude 123

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hm well said. In my opinion it wouldn't be great to look in the world in someone elses eyes. Forget about his success, he could see your chick has a Ug 4 and u c her has a hb 8, does that u mean u gotta dump this chick because she dosn't meet to his standards. I say just do what makes u happy and forget everyone else.

I had gone out with few girls and had a friend say she was not all that. I just say i don't care, i like her and i find her attractive. To b honest that is all that matters ur friend is not dating her, u r.
 

hansol

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Dude, who cares what he thinks? Are you looking for a relationship based on your own standards, and doing things for your own interests? Or are you being a knob and actually caring what other people think?

A Man doesn't give a crap. He goes and takes what he wants, and ignores the background chatter. If you're happy, that's all that matters.
 

cola

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Has to be some of the dumbest sh!t I've read in my 2 years of reading this forum.
Who gives a hell about his girls..
Comparing yourself to male peers + Djing = FAIL!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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