Im moving in with a buddy of mine next year for school, hes recently gotten into the game, and doing really well, hes a personal trainer and gets HB 8+ constantly when he goes out, the thing is next year I have a feeling that no matter what girl I bring home when we go out, his girl will always be hotter or he'll find a way to say I can do better.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Roommate increasing my standards
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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WTF dude....WHO CARES if your roomate gets some HB something....just get the girl you want. Do not compare yourself to your roomate, it's pointless.
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hm well said. In my opinion it wouldn't be great to look in the world in someone elses eyes. Forget about his success, he could see your chick has a Ug 4 and u c her has a hb 8, does that u mean u gotta dump this chick because she dosn't meet to his standards. I say just do what makes u happy and forget everyone else.
I had gone out with few girls and had a friend say she was not all that. I just say i don't care, i like her and i find her attractive. To b honest that is all that matters ur friend is not dating her, u r.
I had gone out with few girls and had a friend say she was not all that. I just say i don't care, i like her and i find her attractive. To b honest that is all that matters ur friend is not dating her, u r.
Dude, who cares what he thinks? Are you looking for a relationship based on your own standards, and doing things for your own interests? Or are you being a knob and actually caring what other people think?
A Man doesn't give a crap. He goes and takes what he wants, and ignores the background chatter. If you're happy, that's all that matters.
A Man doesn't give a crap. He goes and takes what he wants, and ignores the background chatter. If you're happy, that's all that matters.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.