Im moving in with a buddy of mine next year for school, hes recently gotten into the game, and doing really well, hes a personal trainer and gets HB 8+ constantly when he goes out, the thing is next year I have a feeling that no matter what girl I bring home when we go out, his girl will always be hotter or he'll find a way to say I can do better.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Roommate increasing my standards
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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WTF dude....WHO CARES if your roomate gets some HB something....just get the girl you want. Do not compare yourself to your roomate, it's pointless.
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hm well said. In my opinion it wouldn't be great to look in the world in someone elses eyes. Forget about his success, he could see your chick has a Ug 4 and u c her has a hb 8, does that u mean u gotta dump this chick because she dosn't meet to his standards. I say just do what makes u happy and forget everyone else.
I had gone out with few girls and had a friend say she was not all that. I just say i don't care, i like her and i find her attractive. To b honest that is all that matters ur friend is not dating her, u r.
I had gone out with few girls and had a friend say she was not all that. I just say i don't care, i like her and i find her attractive. To b honest that is all that matters ur friend is not dating her, u r.
Dude, who cares what he thinks? Are you looking for a relationship based on your own standards, and doing things for your own interests? Or are you being a knob and actually caring what other people think?
A Man doesn't give a crap. He goes and takes what he wants, and ignores the background chatter. If you're happy, that's all that matters.
A Man doesn't give a crap. He goes and takes what he wants, and ignores the background chatter. If you're happy, that's all that matters.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.