"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rookie mistake... too much too soon

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Is there any recovery from the too much too soon classic rookie mistake? This is the 3rd time in my life i've got the old red flag for coming on too strong too early...

Everything was going great with this girl and i've been laid up in hospital so I had too much free time and smothered her. So I got the push off today... even worse she called me "buddy" hahaha brutal...

is there any recovering from this??? Can I somehow turn it around after I lay off for a while tell her she couldn't handle me or something?

thanks in advance for your advice...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Spin other plates and stop contacting her. If she contacts you, only let it be to set up a date. Its that simple. Don't get into any long drawn out convo's on the phone.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Spin other plates and stop contacting her. If she contacts you, only let it be to set up a date. Its that simple. Don't get into any long drawn out convo's on the phone.
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exactly... but chances are still slim women have soo many options they dont need io dwell ..
 
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Lucky

Well it seems that i'm lucky this time... she's back-peddled now and i'm coming back with a bit of a i don't give a fvck attitude. so i guess the best thing is to back right off and when she responds go back to c&f / negs???
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My Name is Nobody

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MacAvoy said:
See this NO CONTACT stuff is so powerful that it works in 7 hours now LOL
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lol yeah right! It hasn't worked for me at all yet.
 
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