"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rookie mistake... too much too soon

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Is there any recovery from the too much too soon classic rookie mistake? This is the 3rd time in my life i've got the old red flag for coming on too strong too early...

Everything was going great with this girl and i've been laid up in hospital so I had too much free time and smothered her. So I got the push off today... even worse she called me "buddy" hahaha brutal...

is there any recovering from this??? Can I somehow turn it around after I lay off for a while tell her she couldn't handle me or something?

thanks in advance for your advice...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Spin other plates and stop contacting her. If she contacts you, only let it be to set up a date. Its that simple. Don't get into any long drawn out convo's on the phone.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Spin other plates and stop contacting her. If she contacts you, only let it be to set up a date. Its that simple. Don't get into any long drawn out convo's on the phone.
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exactly... but chances are still slim women have soo many options they dont need io dwell ..
 
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Lucky

Well it seems that i'm lucky this time... she's back-peddled now and i'm coming back with a bit of a i don't give a fvck attitude. so i guess the best thing is to back right off and when she responds go back to c&f / negs???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MacAvoy said:
See this NO CONTACT stuff is so powerful that it works in 7 hours now LOL
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lol yeah right! It hasn't worked for me at all yet.
 
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