"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rookie mistake... too much too soon

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Is there any recovery from the too much too soon classic rookie mistake? This is the 3rd time in my life i've got the old red flag for coming on too strong too early...

Everything was going great with this girl and i've been laid up in hospital so I had too much free time and smothered her. So I got the push off today... even worse she called me "buddy" hahaha brutal...

is there any recovering from this??? Can I somehow turn it around after I lay off for a while tell her she couldn't handle me or something?

thanks in advance for your advice...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spin other plates and stop contacting her. If she contacts you, only let it be to set up a date. Its that simple. Don't get into any long drawn out convo's on the phone.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Spin other plates and stop contacting her. If she contacts you, only let it be to set up a date. Its that simple. Don't get into any long drawn out convo's on the phone.
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exactly... but chances are still slim women have soo many options they dont need io dwell ..
 
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Lucky

Well it seems that i'm lucky this time... she's back-peddled now and i'm coming back with a bit of a i don't give a fvck attitude. so i guess the best thing is to back right off and when she responds go back to c&f / negs???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MacAvoy said:
See this NO CONTACT stuff is so powerful that it works in 7 hours now LOL
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lol yeah right! It hasn't worked for me at all yet.
 
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