"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Romanticism: An Obituary
- Thread starter Pook
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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sethosayher
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction
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dude!! this conrad guy is a such a loser. he has posted this same thingie in so many pook posts. hahahahahaaha!! just go n check.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60002&perpage=20&pagenumber=9
conrad77777
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p.s. "ATTRACTION" dude you should learn how to type.
englishman
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Its above not ubove? must say pooks stuff just sounds like bollocks to me to though.......and I might not have much to say but ive fvked well over a hundred chicks in my day and my record is a four some (me and 3 chicks) Pook sounds to me like hes been to to many writting classes....
BlackJackal
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree with what you say about escaping from reality through this fatuation, and the inevitable disaster that occurs once this bubble has been popped. My good friend got dumped by his girlfiend after a year together last week. I've read some their messages to each other when they were together and the general trend was him saying: I can't believe how deeply ive fallen in love with you!, and her agreeing with what he says. He tried to hang himself with a computer cord a few days ago. It seems to me he would have been better off never falling in love in the first place.
But how do we let go of this desire or "romantic love"? Is this something I will grow out of? Or must I learn now to forget these crazy notions? I don't want to end up like my friend
lurker
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many guys will remain afc.
all you need to know is there are 2 kinds of women to avoid, the helpless romantic and the promiscous. these two will lead you to suicide in marriage. one is adolescent using unrealistic romantic expectations to kill the man . while the other will,... well ...fuk your freinds
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What Pook said is that there are LAWS OF NATURE that govern all around us. So it is better for you to hear the VOICE OF NATURE, instead of the fairy tales from our childhood. Girls will seek for strong MAN. So, if you keep being like a boy, a kid, a NICE GUY, you'll probably face the same destiny as your friend.
Say the truth: is it love you are feeling? Or it is just your animal instinct for having sex with that one girl?
We were taught to be a NICE GUY. But we also know what happens to a Nice Guy when he faces a Hot Girl, a Woman. We all know about the crashes and buns. This means that is something really WRONG with the things that was taught to us since childhood. The only way to go, it's to understand that woman only respect a MAN, and you should develop the qualities of a man to have sucess.
Being a man is a process. You will build yourself day by day. Learn here. Learn there. Put some good new thing in practice. Take off bad habits, put new ones in its places. Focus on build yourself the best man you can. Woman will come as a side effect. Believe me, cos its not my advise to you. Its nature`s rules and no man can change or deny it.