Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I have yet to read something out of you. Who are you? that's right a nobody. Why don't your write a few tips, I am sure the people are just holding their breath for you.Pook, I don't think I've EVER read so much crap in my life. Mate you are a complete tool. I've been reading some of the things you've published on this forum, MY GOD you talk so much ****. I bet you are just some idiot who's all talk. you think you "know" women but you're actually clueless. Sorry mate but you're a complete wanker. Anyone who actually takes your advice is being seriously mislead. PEOPLE, THIS "POOK" MORON HAS HIS HEAD UP HIS ARSE, DON"T LISTEN TO HIM!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Don't listen to Pook? Well who should I listen to? Should I listen to you? Maybe you're saying I should listen to you but unfortunately you don't have any thing to say.Originally posted by conrad77777
Pook, I don't think I've EVER read so much crap in my life. Mate you are a complete tool. I've been reading some of the things you've published on this forum, MY GOD you talk so much ****. I bet you are just some idiot who's all talk. you think you "know" women but you're actually clueless. Sorry mate but you're a complete wanker. Anyone who actually takes your advice is being seriously mislead. PEOPLE, THIS "POOK" MORON HAS HIS HEAD UP HIS ARSE, DON"T LISTEN TO HIM!
Its above not ubove? must say pooks stuff just sounds like bollocks to me to though.......and I might not have much to say but ive fvked well over a hundred chicks in my day and my record is a four some (me and 3 chicks) Pook sounds to me like hes been to to many writting classes....Originally posted by conrad77777
You should listen to what's inside. Use the force. Be all that you can be. Ubove all, believe in yourselfs.
p.s. "ATTRACTION" dude you should learn how to type.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What Pook said is that there are LAWS OF NATURE that govern all around us. So it is better for you to hear the VOICE OF NATURE, instead of the fairy tales from our childhood. Girls will seek for strong MAN. So, if you keep being like a boy, a kid, a NICE GUY, you'll probably face the same destiny as your friend.I don't understand how to take this post. Im young (16) and have this sense of "romantic love" that you attribute to AFC and young men. Are you saying Pook that this feeling of love doesn't exist? I'm not sure i can cope with that. Sometimes I convince myself that im in love with my girlfriend, just because I feel the need for this feeling.
I agree with what you say about escaping from reality through this fatuation, and the inevitable disaster that occurs once this bubble has been popped. My good friend got dumped by his girlfiend after a year together last week. I've read some their messages to each other when they were together and the general trend was him saying: I can't believe how deeply ive fallen in love with you!, and her agreeing with what he says. He tried to hang himself with a computer cord a few days ago. It seems to me he would have been better off never falling in love in the first place.
But how do we let go of this desire or "romantic love"? Is this something I will grow out of? Or must I learn now to forget these crazy notions? I don't want to end up like my friend