She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Actually something similar happened to me. I met up with girl from couchsurfing in Taiwan. Turned out it was a dude. It wasn't a date though, just a meeting, so I didn't say anything and just left as soon as possible.Yes. A dude on Bumble a few months ago. We never met, but it became pretty obvious fairly early on.
It never wanted to talk on the phone. At one point, asked me “do you think I’m a dude or something?”
and then, all its pictures were deleted from the profile.
The profile looked legit. Well written, super hot blonde in real world situations, etc
Not suckered because I figured it out. Had a bit of fun with it.Have any of you guys been suckered by a catfish?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You could probably start an only fans with some random Instagram addict's photos.Yeah, I just put up a few fake girl profiles with my Venmo account and thirsty dudes be paying me just because I'm pretty and the fact that I acknowledge their existence. There's tons of money to be made from thirsty dudes everywhere.
It' pays for my internet bill and car insurance.![]()
I was being sarcastic for those that took me seriously but that's a good idea too. LolYou could probably start an only fans with some random Instagram addict's photos.
Apparently this is pretty rampant on OnlyFans. There's been tons of guys and criminal organizations scraping sexy pics from girl's IG accounts and setting up a fake OnlyFans page to bring in the loot.You could probably start an only fans with some random Instagram addict's photos.
Who'd have thought that putting your saucy pics on the internet could have any risks?Apparently this is pretty rampant on OnlyFans. There's been tons of guys and criminal organizations scraping sexy pics from girl's IG accounts and setting up a fake OnlyFans page to bring in the loot.
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LolWho'd have thought that putting your saucy pics on the internet could have any risks?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.