"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Romance Scams
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Actually something similar happened to me. I met up with girl from couchsurfing in Taiwan. Turned out it was a dude. It wasn't a date though, just a meeting, so I didn't say anything and just left as soon as possible.
Not suckered because I figured it out. Had a bit of fun with it.
Had a Tinder match about 7 years ago. Back in those days you could still see the FB-friends you have in common with your match. The girl was very beautiful, not model-pretty but still.. 8/10 and very screwable. She had a uncommon first name (Delilah) so I went to my common friends their friendlists and looked her up. All four of my common FB-friends had just one Delilah in their list and it was the same profile.
Only.. it wasn't that cute girl but a very unattractive chick. Everything checked out though.. interests, common friends, first name, occupation. Just the pictures were from someone else. Someone hotter... So I decided to have a little fun with it. In one of her profile pictures she was posing with her dog (Bob, according to the text above the picture) and another girl which she had tagged as Sylvie.
That night she DM'd me on Tinder. Asking me what I find attractive in a girl.
I replied that I like brunettes, especially if they have a dog seeing I'm a dogperson. She replied with "Yes! I do have a dog", then I said "Well, I like people who call their dog by some baby boomer name like Danny, Paul or Bob (no offence to anyone named like this btw) and she went "OMG. My dog is named Bob!", after which I replied: "I know, Sylvie told me. Is Sylvie still single? She's way hotter than you"
She unmatched me immediately. Pity. I was really looking forward to messing with her head some more... never got the chance
It' pays for my internet bill and car insurance.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You could probably start an only fans with some random Instagram addict's photos.Yeah, I just put up a few fake girl profiles with my Venmo account and thirsty dudes be paying me just because I'm pretty and the fact that I acknowledge their existence. There's tons of money to be made from thirsty dudes everywhere.
It' pays for my internet bill and car insurance.
I was being sarcastic for those that took me seriously but that's a good idea too. Lol
Apparently this is pretty rampant on OnlyFans. There's been tons of guys and criminal organizations scraping sexy pics from girl's IG accounts and setting up a fake OnlyFans page to bring in the loot.
Young People's Instagram Profiles Are Being Used for Fake Porn Accounts
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Who'd have thought that putting your saucy pics on the internet could have any risks?Apparently this is pretty rampant on OnlyFans. There's been tons of guys and criminal organizations scraping sexy pics from girl's IG accounts and setting up a fake OnlyFans page to bring in the loot.
Young People's Instagram Profiles Are Being Used for Fake Porn Accounts
A new scam is targeting people, particularly Instagram models, by cloning their profiles and using them to create fake OnlyFans or JustForFans accounts.
Lol
Yeah this should be a wakeup call to all the IG Thots not to publically post any kind of sexy pics on IG. I know that will be impossible though.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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-I've been invited to fake Groups on IG--common
-Seen girls on OLD using fake photos using popular porn stars--a few times
-Been hit up by OLD women to have sex while their husband watches. This may actually be legit in some instances, but good chance you get clubbed, drugged, and/or robbed while you're in a compromising position, so to speak. A lot of bad s*it can happen with this one. My retort is always "Not interested in having your husband anywhere near me, but, you and me can have sex, film it, and you can show him." None have taken me up on it.--a few times