PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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He breaks it down smoothly and practically
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rom Willis- Often women will just like a man
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The question is, how often? If you are low on the SMV scale, it will happen less often. And one important fact he doesn't mention is that the woman in question will be low SMV herself if YOU are low SMV.
So, for example: greasy haired gamer, doesn't shower often, fat, but loves gaming, knows everything there is to be known about d&d. There will be a girl out there who likes him. Maybe. But she won't be hot. She might not even be cute. At best, she will be a plain Jane. At best. And more likely than not, she will be even greasier and fatter than he is.
Do I have cheat codes? Yes. But most guys will f that up as well.
So, for example: greasy haired gamer, doesn't shower often, fat, but loves gaming, knows everything there is to be known about d&d. There will be a girl out there who likes him. Maybe. But she won't be hot. She might not even be cute. At best, she will be a plain Jane. At best. And more likely than not, she will be even greasier and fatter than he is.
Do I have cheat codes? Yes. But most guys will f that up as well.
Real life diagnosis combined with a DGAF attitude there in that man…
Winning combination in my book.