PeasantPlayer
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He breaks it down smoothly and practically
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The question is, how often? If you are low on the SMV scale, it will happen less often. And one important fact he doesn't mention is that the woman in question will be low SMV herself if YOU are low SMV.
So, for example: greasy haired gamer, doesn't shower often, fat, but loves gaming, knows everything there is to be known about d&d. There will be a girl out there who likes him. Maybe. But she won't be hot. She might not even be cute. At best, she will be a plain Jane. At best. And more likely than not, she will be even greasier and fatter than he is.
Do I have cheat codes? Yes. But most guys will f that up as well.
So, for example: greasy haired gamer, doesn't shower often, fat, but loves gaming, knows everything there is to be known about d&d. There will be a girl out there who likes him. Maybe. But she won't be hot. She might not even be cute. At best, she will be a plain Jane. At best. And more likely than not, she will be even greasier and fatter than he is.
Do I have cheat codes? Yes. But most guys will f that up as well.
Real life diagnosis combined with a DGAF attitude there in that man…
Winning combination in my book.