"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rollo Tomassi Live Tomorrow

Rollo Tomassi

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Just a quick heads up guys, I'll be on live with Obsidian and Alan Roger Currie together tomorrow at 1pm PST (4pm EST). This was kind of spur of the moment so I’m not really sure what the topics will be, but we’re likely to be all over the Red Pill map. So if there’s anything you’ve ever wanted to ask me you can find the show here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/obsidi...pingitup-with-the-rational-male-rollo-tomassi
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just a quick heads up guys, I'll be on live with Obsidian and Alan Roger Currie together tomorrow at 1pm PST (4pm EST). This was kind of spur of the moment so I’m not really sure what the topics will be, but we’re likely to be all over the Red Pill map. So if there’s anything you’ve ever wanted to ask me you can find the show here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/obsidi...pingitup-with-the-rational-male-rollo-tomassi
How long are you gonna be on for?
 

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Do you mind talking about social life for men as they get older? I don't mean just in regards to women but in regards to friendships, making friends, brotherhood, social events, parties, fun times, etc.

I read the manosphere and it seems like such lonely **** is all you get after you hit your 30s, that and you get laid more but still.
 

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For future podcasts/writings:

I've always wondered about your "Iron Rules" and dealing in absolutes. More specifically, how about "Iron Rule" #3? As you've matured and grown, would you ever consider updating your Iron Rules?

Also, since you're married (you still are, correct?), how do you feel that affects the advice you give to men who are not currently in relationships? Do you ever feel "rusty"?

Disclaimer: I by no means have stayed up with current events in the life of Rollo Tomassi, so if you've gone over my questions in detail somewhere else, would you be able to attach a link?

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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