"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rollo Tomassi Live Tomorrow

Rollo Tomassi

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Just a quick heads up guys, I'll be on live with Obsidian and Alan Roger Currie together tomorrow at 1pm PST (4pm EST). This was kind of spur of the moment so I’m not really sure what the topics will be, but we’re likely to be all over the Red Pill map. So if there’s anything you’ve ever wanted to ask me you can find the show here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/obsidi...pingitup-with-the-rational-male-rollo-tomassi
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Just a quick heads up guys, I'll be on live with Obsidian and Alan Roger Currie together tomorrow at 1pm PST (4pm EST). This was kind of spur of the moment so I’m not really sure what the topics will be, but we’re likely to be all over the Red Pill map. So if there’s anything you’ve ever wanted to ask me you can find the show here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/obsidi...pingitup-with-the-rational-male-rollo-tomassi
How long are you gonna be on for?
 

ThePlayedList

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Do you mind talking about social life for men as they get older? I don't mean just in regards to women but in regards to friendships, making friends, brotherhood, social events, parties, fun times, etc.

I read the manosphere and it seems like such lonely **** is all you get after you hit your 30s, that and you get laid more but still.
 

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For future podcasts/writings:

I've always wondered about your "Iron Rules" and dealing in absolutes. More specifically, how about "Iron Rule" #3? As you've matured and grown, would you ever consider updating your Iron Rules?

Also, since you're married (you still are, correct?), how do you feel that affects the advice you give to men who are not currently in relationships? Do you ever feel "rusty"?

Disclaimer: I by no means have stayed up with current events in the life of Rollo Tomassi, so if you've gone over my questions in detail somewhere else, would you be able to attach a link?

Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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