"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rollo Tomassi Live Tomorrow

Rollo Tomassi

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Just a quick heads up guys, I'll be on live with Obsidian and Alan Roger Currie together tomorrow at 1pm PST (4pm EST). This was kind of spur of the moment so I’m not really sure what the topics will be, but we’re likely to be all over the Red Pill map. So if there’s anything you’ve ever wanted to ask me you can find the show here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/obsidi...pingitup-with-the-rational-male-rollo-tomassi
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Just a quick heads up guys, I'll be on live with Obsidian and Alan Roger Currie together tomorrow at 1pm PST (4pm EST). This was kind of spur of the moment so I’m not really sure what the topics will be, but we’re likely to be all over the Red Pill map. So if there’s anything you’ve ever wanted to ask me you can find the show here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/obsidi...pingitup-with-the-rational-male-rollo-tomassi
How long are you gonna be on for?
 

ThePlayedList

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Do you mind talking about social life for men as they get older? I don't mean just in regards to women but in regards to friendships, making friends, brotherhood, social events, parties, fun times, etc.

I read the manosphere and it seems like such lonely **** is all you get after you hit your 30s, that and you get laid more but still.
 

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For future podcasts/writings:

I've always wondered about your "Iron Rules" and dealing in absolutes. More specifically, how about "Iron Rule" #3? As you've matured and grown, would you ever consider updating your Iron Rules?

Also, since you're married (you still are, correct?), how do you feel that affects the advice you give to men who are not currently in relationships? Do you ever feel "rusty"?

Disclaimer: I by no means have stayed up with current events in the life of Rollo Tomassi, so if you've gone over my questions in detail somewhere else, would you be able to attach a link?

Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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