"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Role Playing
- Thread starter prema
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Snow Plowman
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I really like using the bodyguard roleplay...its so many different things you can do
Push/pull: "I'll pay you 1,000 dol...matter fact I'll pay you 1 french frie a day."
Story: Talk about an incident where she had to protect your or anything that still plays the dynamic of Bodyguard.
Cold Read: "I can see it now, your all quiet and innocent but deep down your a bad girl...I'm kind of liking that it makes you seem tough...you know what your my new bodyguard!"
Kino: "In order to be my bodyguard you must pass my Strength test...first you must beat me in arm wrestling...then lets check out how tough you really are, flex a muscle."
C&F: "Now when we go to clubs you must protect me from all the women trying to grab my sexy body and don't betray me by helpping them and jumpping on me."
Ok you get the idea.
Some other roleplays that I do are:
Runnaway lovers (You both ran from home and met each other and now together)
Bonnie/clyde
Marraige
Bf/GF
Gang (Your the leader and she has to join)
Sexual innuendo: "To join my gang you have to get fuked in...we shall see if you can hang on for atleast 1 minute...actually no I don't think you can handle getting beat up for 1 minute." (I'm thinking bout field testing this)
I must say Roleplaying is one of the most fun techniques to play around with. So many different things you can do while keeping that roleplaying frame. It's also good call back humor.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Livinlifehard
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So are you trying to play like a guy on the net telling another guy how to rollplay?prema said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Family Guy rocks! :rockon:Michele said: