"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Role Playing
- Thread starter prema
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Snow Plowman
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I really like using the bodyguard roleplay...its so many different things you can do
Push/pull: "I'll pay you 1,000 dol...matter fact I'll pay you 1 french frie a day."
Story: Talk about an incident where she had to protect your or anything that still plays the dynamic of Bodyguard.
Cold Read: "I can see it now, your all quiet and innocent but deep down your a bad girl...I'm kind of liking that it makes you seem tough...you know what your my new bodyguard!"
Kino: "In order to be my bodyguard you must pass my Strength test...first you must beat me in arm wrestling...then lets check out how tough you really are, flex a muscle."
C&F: "Now when we go to clubs you must protect me from all the women trying to grab my sexy body and don't betray me by helpping them and jumpping on me."
Ok you get the idea.
Some other roleplays that I do are:
Runnaway lovers (You both ran from home and met each other and now together)
Bonnie/clyde
Marraige
Bf/GF
Gang (Your the leader and she has to join)
Sexual innuendo: "To join my gang you have to get fuked in...we shall see if you can hang on for atleast 1 minute...actually no I don't think you can handle getting beat up for 1 minute." (I'm thinking bout field testing this)
I must say Roleplaying is one of the most fun techniques to play around with. So many different things you can do while keeping that roleplaying frame. It's also good call back humor.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Livinlifehard
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So are you trying to play like a guy on the net telling another guy how to rollplay?prema said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Family Guy rocks! :rockon:Michele said: