"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Snow Plowman
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I really like using the bodyguard roleplay...its so many different things you can do
Push/pull: "I'll pay you 1,000 dol...matter fact I'll pay you 1 french frie a day."
Story: Talk about an incident where she had to protect your or anything that still plays the dynamic of Bodyguard.
Cold Read: "I can see it now, your all quiet and innocent but deep down your a bad girl...I'm kind of liking that it makes you seem tough...you know what your my new bodyguard!"
Kino: "In order to be my bodyguard you must pass my Strength test...first you must beat me in arm wrestling...then lets check out how tough you really are, flex a muscle."
C&F: "Now when we go to clubs you must protect me from all the women trying to grab my sexy body and don't betray me by helpping them and jumpping on me."
Ok you get the idea.
Some other roleplays that I do are:
Runnaway lovers (You both ran from home and met each other and now together)
Bonnie/clyde
Marraige
Bf/GF
Gang (Your the leader and she has to join)
Sexual innuendo: "To join my gang you have to get fuked in...we shall see if you can hang on for atleast 1 minute...actually no I don't think you can handle getting beat up for 1 minute." (I'm thinking bout field testing this)
I must say Roleplaying is one of the most fun techniques to play around with. So many different things you can do while keeping that roleplaying frame. It's also good call back humor.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Livinlifehard
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So are you trying to play like a guy on the net telling another guy how to rollplay?prema said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Family Guy rocks! :rockon:Michele said: