"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Robbery gang uses poontang over social media to lure men to be victims

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This type of scam has been going on for generations.
I remember hearing stories like this dating back to AOL chatrooms.
Then it progressed to Craigslist and stayed there for the longest time.
I don't know how they're using social media these days to pull off this type of con since everything is out in the open.
They must be using Twitter or Snapchat
 

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How horny those men have to be to turn off their brain and accept those online dates?
 

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Very old news even without an internet. That gender gets men "setup" and learn what makes him tick and shares it with her peers and other males to exploit the situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Exactly. She is a guest in your world. Men who get that backwards end up lost.
She can still come into your world, inform her peeps of your workings. Where you keep your stash. And have you exploited or destroy you.
 

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When I was a kid I remember seeing a newsmagazine show exposing different scams like this. In one, some hot women in bikinis on a beach ask men to apply sunblock on their backs....while their confederates made off with the guys' bags/wallets/etc.

Even back then I remember thinking, how dumb can these guys be?
When I go to the beach, everything I bring is on a lanyard and is hanging around my neck. Obviously I don't go in the water.
 

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When I go to the beach, everything I bring is on a lanyard and is hanging around my neck. Obviously I don't go in the water.
We have to be cautious without doubt, nonetheless, to render you unable to enjoy the seawater while at the beach...

Could you strike up some small talk conversation with your neighbors while at the beach? Get them to keep an eye on your stuff while you take a dip? Robert Cialdini mentions this in his book influence, if you greet your neighbors at the beach and they see someone go near your stuff while you take a dip or whatever, they are more likely to "defend" your stuff, say something or even go after the thief. Whereas those who say nothing to their neighbors are somewhat invisible and irrelevant thus rendering the neighbors more likely to turn a blind eye or not really seem awake to what is going on....

Salt water is where the rejuvenation / healing happens : Sweat, tears or sea swimming!

Weather is too hot hear during summer to not be able to go in the water.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We have to be cautious without doubt, nonetheless, to render you unable to enjoy the seawater while at the beach...

Could you strike up some small talk conversation with your neighbors while at the beach? Get them to keep an eye on your stuff while you take a dip? Robert Cialdini mentions this in his book influence, if you greet your neighbors at the beach and they see someone go near your stuff while you take a dip or whatever, they are more likely to "defend" your stuff, say something or even go after the thief. Whereas those who say nothing to their neighbors are somewhat invisible and irrelevant thus rendering the neighbors more likely to turn a blind eye or not really seem awake to what is going on....

Salt water is where the rejuvenation / healing happens : Sweat, tears or sea swimming!

Weather is too hot hear during summer to not be able to go in the water.
The beach to which I am referring to is not on the coast but rather either along a somewhat dirty river or an even dirtier pond. But because of me having to put my stuff somewhere, even on a regular beach, I would need to be with someone that would stay out to hold my stuff.
 

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I bet all these guys were old and/or ugly.

When it comes to OLD, you should always go on the "Too good to be true" premise.

A lot of these guys were probably 3-4 smv trying to get their d1ck sucked by a 7-8 smv teen on a first meet up. LOL in their dreams...
 
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