Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Risk Of The Week

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Well It's 4th of July and I am in charge of the RISK OF THE WEEK.

The whole point of risk of the week(ROTW) is to get out of your comfort zone, It's about overcoming fears, and becoming a man.

Required Read:Be a Man - Pook

Idealy in PU you want to be able to adapt to anything. To do this you need to be comfortable in any situation, whether it be dancing or talking to a girl.

This is about conquering your fears. If you don't like the suggested ROTW or are morally against it, then fine, substitute one in. These are risks so don't get caught, consider that fair warning. Attempt at your own risk.

Benefits: Respect, Boost of Testosterone, Possible fun, and material for later in life.

Week 1: Low: Light a firecracker.

I'm open for suggestions. I'm thinking 3 levels. High medium and low.

Thanks to Cloud uk for sparking all of this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i think that one classifies as extremely dangerously low.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Yeah, it does though there isn't much better that I can think of.
 

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waste of money

maybe next week you could do something for free and that doesn't risk your physical wellbeing

e.g. say the word 'vagenta' in a conversation with an adult
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haha, gotta let the AFC's catch up.

Next week will be high.
 

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Hey, I had an idea last night

How about waking up early and biking to the top of a hill or the beach (which works for me, 10-15 miles away) to see the sunrise? It's something that takes a bit of willpower, but the feeling when you lie on the beach sweating and see the first rays of morning shine over the horizon is divine.
 

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Originally posted by Need-2-B-Pimpin
Hey, I had an idea last night

How about waking up early and biking to the top of a hill or the beach (which works for me, 10-15 miles away) to see the sunrise? It's something that takes a bit of willpower, but the feeling when you lie on the beach sweating and see the first rays of morning shine over the horizon is divine.
Keep it down Romeo. ;)

Of course it's all beautiful, but it isn't risky. And I dont have any hills around here. :(
 

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Instead of risk of the week. Lets go out and pick up women. Thats a big risk.
 

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Jonny, the thing about this is, it's not about women. It's about you. The risk of the week is supposed to shake your 'comfort zone' in some way that improves you, not gives you a chance at scoring some chick. Approaching is something that we can do seperate from this, there's plenty that's been written about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Approaching is pretty scary ****. BOOO!



Anyone blown their hands off, yet?
 

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Nah though I've had a M98 blow up right in the palm of my hand when I was trying to get it in a sink (damn short, cheap fuse!) and it just itched for a few hours.
 

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Approaching does shake the comfort zone. It's scary at first and by blowing up fireworks it's not really going to help you pick up women IMO.
 

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Yeah, but these summer games aren't about picking up women, and the risk is about growing some balls in general, not just in the female-related aspects of life.
 

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Week 2: Get rejected in some way shape or form.
Can be anything from trying to buy beer, tobacco, or asking some chick to marry you. Anything, get rejected.

If your gonna try to buy something and they try to card you say your driving on a ticket and then just walk out if they say no. At least try.

Risk Level Med-High.

Good luck and keep suggestions coming.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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