"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Risk Of The Week

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Well It's 4th of July and I am in charge of the RISK OF THE WEEK.

The whole point of risk of the week(ROTW) is to get out of your comfort zone, It's about overcoming fears, and becoming a man.

Required Read:Be a Man - Pook

Idealy in PU you want to be able to adapt to anything. To do this you need to be comfortable in any situation, whether it be dancing or talking to a girl.

This is about conquering your fears. If you don't like the suggested ROTW or are morally against it, then fine, substitute one in. These are risks so don't get caught, consider that fair warning. Attempt at your own risk.

Benefits: Respect, Boost of Testosterone, Possible fun, and material for later in life.

Week 1: Low: Light a firecracker.

I'm open for suggestions. I'm thinking 3 levels. High medium and low.

Thanks to Cloud uk for sparking all of this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i think that one classifies as extremely dangerously low.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Yeah, it does though there isn't much better that I can think of.
 

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waste of money

maybe next week you could do something for free and that doesn't risk your physical wellbeing

e.g. say the word 'vagenta' in a conversation with an adult
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Haha, gotta let the AFC's catch up.

Next week will be high.
 

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Hey, I had an idea last night

How about waking up early and biking to the top of a hill or the beach (which works for me, 10-15 miles away) to see the sunrise? It's something that takes a bit of willpower, but the feeling when you lie on the beach sweating and see the first rays of morning shine over the horizon is divine.
 

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Originally posted by Need-2-B-Pimpin
Hey, I had an idea last night

How about waking up early and biking to the top of a hill or the beach (which works for me, 10-15 miles away) to see the sunrise? It's something that takes a bit of willpower, but the feeling when you lie on the beach sweating and see the first rays of morning shine over the horizon is divine.
Keep it down Romeo. ;)

Of course it's all beautiful, but it isn't risky. And I dont have any hills around here. :(
 

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Instead of risk of the week. Lets go out and pick up women. Thats a big risk.
 

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Jonny, the thing about this is, it's not about women. It's about you. The risk of the week is supposed to shake your 'comfort zone' in some way that improves you, not gives you a chance at scoring some chick. Approaching is something that we can do seperate from this, there's plenty that's been written about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Approaching is pretty scary ****. BOOO!



Anyone blown their hands off, yet?
 

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Nah though I've had a M98 blow up right in the palm of my hand when I was trying to get it in a sink (damn short, cheap fuse!) and it just itched for a few hours.
 

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Approaching does shake the comfort zone. It's scary at first and by blowing up fireworks it's not really going to help you pick up women IMO.
 

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Yeah, but these summer games aren't about picking up women, and the risk is about growing some balls in general, not just in the female-related aspects of life.
 

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Week 2: Get rejected in some way shape or form.
Can be anything from trying to buy beer, tobacco, or asking some chick to marry you. Anything, get rejected.

If your gonna try to buy something and they try to card you say your driving on a ticket and then just walk out if they say no. At least try.

Risk Level Med-High.

Good luck and keep suggestions coming.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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