"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RIP to one of the originals Gs!

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THE SYSTEM forms the basis of all of the coaching on this site and was written by the late Thomas Hodges, AKA Doc Love who passed away in August, 2020. We are keeping his legacy going and while Doc started out with a weekly article his baby was anything to do with the radio - he loved talking on the radio and especially loved the Doc Love Club!
I jad no clue. @RangerMIke brought up Doc Love. I remember finding him on askmen ages ago. Early 2000s.i remember reading the system. I think it's more geared towards dating, relationships, and exclusivity. Still, the verdict of what it warrants is solid especially on the focus of interest level. I found the Game and pickup thereafter. Doc got me going on the the journey. Back when blue pill and idealistic. With wifey in mind at some point. Hahaha! When young and dump.

Rip DOC.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Holy crap! I completely forgot about askmen. Any idea what happened with doc ? Rip !
 

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Holy crap! I completely forgot about askmen. Any idea what happened with doc ? Rip !
No clue. Dude was old. I remember seeing ads for Style life academy. Thinking it was a scam (which it. Kind of is, strauss is a punk). I used Doc love with dating as a kid. I went down the rabbit hole in pua, game, red pill, and became a curmudgeon hah.

Docs emphasis on interest level is MONEY.
 

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Remember reading a bunch of Doc Love at the age of 16. Learning about red pill mindset at an early age set me up nicely.

RIP
 

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RIP Doc Love...He gave relationship knowledge GOLD nuggets from an era when men behaved like Men!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Remember reading a bunch of Doc Love at the age of 16. Learning about red pill mindset at an early age set me up nicely.

RIP
For real. The man is a OG. It was my introduction to Game. I went down the pickup rabbit hole thereafter. I remember ask men articles and emphasis on interest levels. Solid advice mostly geared towards older men and LTR though still very solid.
 

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RIP Doc Love...He gave relationship knowledge GOLD nuggets from an era when men behaved like Men!
Very solid. I wish he had a comeup during social media. He could be bigger and more podcasts to archive. Gems.

I suspect more DJs want something long term. I recommend him. I find it useful for when you already have a rotation and pipeline of options spoiled for choice.
 
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