"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RIP to one of the originals Gs!

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THE SYSTEM forms the basis of all of the coaching on this site and was written by the late Thomas Hodges, AKA Doc Love who passed away in August, 2020. We are keeping his legacy going and while Doc started out with a weekly article his baby was anything to do with the radio - he loved talking on the radio and especially loved the Doc Love Club!
I jad no clue. @RangerMIke brought up Doc Love. I remember finding him on askmen ages ago. Early 2000s.i remember reading the system. I think it's more geared towards dating, relationships, and exclusivity. Still, the verdict of what it warrants is solid especially on the focus of interest level. I found the Game and pickup thereafter. Doc got me going on the the journey. Back when blue pill and idealistic. With wifey in mind at some point. Hahaha! When young and dump.

Rip DOC.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holy crap! I completely forgot about askmen. Any idea what happened with doc ? Rip !
 

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Holy crap! I completely forgot about askmen. Any idea what happened with doc ? Rip !
No clue. Dude was old. I remember seeing ads for Style life academy. Thinking it was a scam (which it. Kind of is, strauss is a punk). I used Doc love with dating as a kid. I went down the rabbit hole in pua, game, red pill, and became a curmudgeon hah.

Docs emphasis on interest level is MONEY.
 

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Remember reading a bunch of Doc Love at the age of 16. Learning about red pill mindset at an early age set me up nicely.

RIP
 

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RIP Doc Love...He gave relationship knowledge GOLD nuggets from an era when men behaved like Men!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Remember reading a bunch of Doc Love at the age of 16. Learning about red pill mindset at an early age set me up nicely.

RIP
For real. The man is a OG. It was my introduction to Game. I went down the pickup rabbit hole thereafter. I remember ask men articles and emphasis on interest levels. Solid advice mostly geared towards older men and LTR though still very solid.
 

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RIP Doc Love...He gave relationship knowledge GOLD nuggets from an era when men behaved like Men!
Very solid. I wish he had a comeup during social media. He could be bigger and more podcasts to archive. Gems.

I suspect more DJs want something long term. I recommend him. I find it useful for when you already have a rotation and pipeline of options spoiled for choice.
 
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