"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RIP to one of the originals Gs!

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THE SYSTEM forms the basis of all of the coaching on this site and was written by the late Thomas Hodges, AKA Doc Love who passed away in August, 2020. We are keeping his legacy going and while Doc started out with a weekly article his baby was anything to do with the radio - he loved talking on the radio and especially loved the Doc Love Club!
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I jad no clue. @RangerMIke brought up Doc Love. I remember finding him on askmen ages ago. Early 2000s.i remember reading the system. I think it's more geared towards dating, relationships, and exclusivity. Still, the verdict of what it warrants is solid especially on the focus of interest level. I found the Game and pickup thereafter. Doc got me going on the the journey. Back when blue pill and idealistic. With wifey in mind at some point. Hahaha! When young and dump.

Rip DOC.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Holy crap! I completely forgot about askmen. Any idea what happened with doc ? Rip !
 
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Machine10033 said:
Holy crap! I completely forgot about askmen. Any idea what happened with doc ? Rip !
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No clue. Dude was old. I remember seeing ads for Style life academy. Thinking it was a scam (which it. Kind of is, strauss is a punk). I used Doc love with dating as a kid. I went down the rabbit hole in pua, game, red pill, and became a curmudgeon hah.

Docs emphasis on interest level is MONEY.
 
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Remember reading a bunch of Doc Love at the age of 16. Learning about red pill mindset at an early age set me up nicely.

RIP
 
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RIP Doc Love...He gave relationship knowledge GOLD nuggets from an era when men behaved like Men!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oOh Nasty said:
Remember reading a bunch of Doc Love at the age of 16. Learning about red pill mindset at an early age set me up nicely.

RIP
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For real. The man is a OG. It was my introduction to Game. I went down the pickup rabbit hole thereafter. I remember ask men articles and emphasis on interest levels. Solid advice mostly geared towards older men and LTR though still very solid.
 
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RIP Doc Love...He gave relationship knowledge GOLD nuggets from an era when men behaved like Men!
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Very solid. I wish he had a comeup during social media. He could be bigger and more podcasts to archive. Gems.

I suspect more DJs want something long term. I recommend him. I find it useful for when you already have a rotation and pipeline of options spoiled for choice.
 
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