"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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RIP Alan Roger Currie - direct approach pioneer dies age 59

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I'm so sad to have just found out that dating coach Alan Roger Currie passed away this week aged 59. He was a true pioneer of the direct approach, which he called 'Mode One'. Him and David X were my 2 biggest inspirations in this game. I never liked indirect PUA material, I'm direct all the way. Now both these legendary direct dating coaches are gone.

Confirmation of his passing from his wife and brother: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?st...5HLtf8LABuoMvEhQg88SjstDVl&id=100009339913444
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm so sad to have just found out that dating coach Alan Roger Currie passed away this week aged 59. He was a true pioneer of the direct approach, which he called 'Mode One'. Him and David X were my 2 biggest inspirations in this game. I never liked indirect PUA material, I'm direct all the way. Now both these legendary direct dating coaches are gone.

Confirmation of his passing from his wife and brother: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?st...5HLtf8LABuoMvEhQg88SjstDVl&id=100009339913444
Awwwww nawwww :eek::eek::eek::eek:.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I greatly miss this guy. He was the ultimate truth in my opinion in regards to understanding Women and their nature.

I spoke to him via. Skype in late October and messaged him Happy Thanksgiving on his Patreon on November 24th. He replied to me with appreciation.

Little did I or anyone know... He would be gone 4 days later. Very big loss IMO but his material is still alive and well.
 
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I greatly miss this guy. He was the ultimate truth in my opinion in regards to understanding Women and their nature.

I spoke to him via. Skype in late October and messaged him Happy Thanksgiving on his Patreon on November 24th. He replied to me with appreciation.

Little did I or anyone know... He would be gone 4 days later. Very big loss IMO but his material is still alive and well.
Yeah man, I spoke to him via FB a few weeks ago...he had stated in one of his videos that he is a movie buff and has had experience working in Hollywood.

I told him about a television project that I have and he told me he would see if some of his people could help me.

Im sure it was just "Hollywood" talk but hey lol.

Sad, sad news.
 

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Sad all these YouTubers are passing. Foul play?
Don't think so. Many believe Kevin Samuels died due to the "Special poke".

Some are now speculating the same has happened to ARC but in his private Patreon livestreams, he mentioned that he avoided taking it.

Overall, you never know... 59 is still young to die suddenly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No, not vax. KS was poisoned by that psychotic YouTube bvtch Melanie King that he was fvcking. She was offering him drinks during his last live video.
Ah ok I get what you're saying. In regards to Alan Roger Currie's death, I don't think there was foul play...

However, In November, in Alan's last Patreon livestream he seemed completely fine. He didn't look ill or talk about being ill/sick. This is why this was such a shock that he died suddenly. Someone posted a screenshot of Alan's brother saying he died of a heart attack but nothing has been fully confirmed.

ARC was working on a movie script and appeared to be upbeat. When I spoke to him he looked fine and never mentioned any sickness to his Patreon community. On the other hand he did have problems with diabetes and mentioned him getting hospitalized with Covid months ago but made it out OK and recovered.

This was his last Patreon post.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I greatly miss this guy. He was the ultimate truth in my opinion in regards to understanding Women and their nature.

I spoke to him via. Skype in late October and messaged him Happy Thanksgiving on his Patreon on November 24th. He replied to me with appreciation.

Little did I or anyone know... He would be gone 4 days later. Very big loss IMO but his material is still alive and well.
It certainly is a sad loss. Currie and David X were the only dating coaches I followed after I switched to the direct approach in 2007 (previous to that I was indirect). Direct approach changed my dating life, and in fact my whole life, dramatically for the better and it's all thanks to what I learned from Currie and David X. It's sad they've both passed away, but they left a superb legacy.

Was there an announcement on his Patreon page about his passing (from his wife or brother)?

How has the direct/Mode One approach worked out for you?
 

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Did he had any health issues?
Yes. From what I've heard him say in interviews and videos, he had type 2 diabetes (caused by when he used to drink peach schnappel by the truckload), plus some kidney problems. He was overweight at certain points too, particularly between 2010 and 2012, caused by overeating junk food (he actually mentioned in a video that he comfort ate during this time due to some personal problems going on).

In addition, he had I think his appendix or gall bladder removed in 2019, where he was in hospital for a while. Then in 2021 or 2022 he was in hospital battling Covid and only just managed to pull through.

He's also talked about the fact that he used to eat chicken wings by the truckload too, sometimes for breakfast, lunch and dinner. If he was eating a lot of fried chicken wings, it's bound to have had a detrimental effect on his health and cholesterol levels.

One health issue tends to compound others, for example a lot of diabetics are overweight and it can also put strain on their heart, so that may be what happened to Currie. It could've also been Covid or Vax related, but we'll never know for sure.

The irony is, he wasn't even a smoker or big drinker, plus he looked in good health in recent years, younger looking than his age in my opinion.

Whatever the reason for his passing, it has totally out of the blue and is indeed a sad loss. He still had more to give, and a no bull**** true teller like him is much needed in today's world.
 

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Yes. From what I've heard him say in interviews and videos, he had type 2 diabetes (caused by when he used to drink peach schnappel by the truckload), plus some kidney problems. He was overweight at certain points too, particularly between 2010 and 2012, caused by overeating junk food (he actually mentioned in a video that he comfort ate during this time due to some personal problems going on).

In addition, he had I think his appendix or gall bladder removed in 2019, where he was in hospital for a while. Then in 2021 or 2022 he was in hospital battling Covid and only just managed to pull through.

He's also talked about the fact that he used to eat chicken wings by the truckload too, sometimes for breakfast, lunch and dinner. If he was eating a lot of fried chicken wings, it's bound to have had a detrimental effect on his health and cholesterol levels.

One health issue tends to compound others, for example a lot of diabetics are overweight and it can also put strain on their heart, so that may be what happened to Currie. It could've also been Covid or Vax related, but we'll never know for sure.

The irony is, he wasn't even a smoker or big drinker, plus he looked in good health in recent years, younger looking than his age in my opinion.

Whatever the reason for his passing, it has totally out of the blue and is indeed a sad loss. He still had more to give, and a no bull**** true teller like him is much needed in today's world.
Great post, thank you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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