"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have formally decided there is nothing wrong with oneitis:trouble:
It's good, it shows that you can care deeply for something ,right? [unless its obsession then its just sad]
So please don't tell to me to move on when I ask....
Is it wrong to try and get a gf and bf to split up by lets say...sleeping with the girl?
or her willingly choosing to dump him for you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's bad because it shows that shes the only girl you are capable of getting, thus lowering your overall value. Think of it like this, who would she rather be with, a guy who all the girls want, or you, the guy that is devoted to her. Besides what would you rather do? waste your time with 1 chick or be able to get with any number of chicks. It's kind of a slippery slope effect, but in a good way. The more girls you can get with, the more girls that will be availible as this raises your value.
 
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I like her a lot...I don't have any problems getting girls but then again I don't get more than the average guy, because I don't want to. Getting girls left right and centre doesn't appeal to me for some reason.But yeah I like the girl so mmuch its not even funny anymore
 
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just realize that as pessimistic as this sounds, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak, possibly. High school relationships rarely last long. I learned the hard way
 
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Thing is, now I have no idea who to game...

Got rid of oneitus for good, now I thing my standars are too high :S
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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to answer your original question, no theres nothing wrong with that. unless the guy gets really pissed and wants to kick your ass, but other than that, go for it
 
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Women want a guy with confidence and a guy who posses a challenge for them. Key word: CHALLENGE.There is no challenge if you are so easy to get, and most guys who have oneitis for a girl make themselves easy to get since they come on strong too soon. It turns them off.

Think about it. Would you HONESTLY go out with a girl who is so easy to get? Most people like to work hard for what they get. In short, it's normal to have oneitis for a girl, but you need to be careful of how you handle it.
 
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Does this challenge stuff really work in HS?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It works in and out of HS, it's a concept you will take with you forever.
Who does not want a challenge? No girl wants to go out with the easy guy, she will lose interest really fast. She wants to know she worked hard for what she got, so she's going to try her best to hold onto you, because she will remember all the effort she had to make to get you.

You tend to appreciate things when you work hard for them. That applies to HS for sure.
 
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