“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have formally decided there is nothing wrong with oneitis:trouble:
It's good, it shows that you can care deeply for something ,right? [unless its obsession then its just sad]
So please don't tell to me to move on when I ask....
Is it wrong to try and get a gf and bf to split up by lets say...sleeping with the girl?
or her willingly choosing to dump him for you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's bad because it shows that shes the only girl you are capable of getting, thus lowering your overall value. Think of it like this, who would she rather be with, a guy who all the girls want, or you, the guy that is devoted to her. Besides what would you rather do? waste your time with 1 chick or be able to get with any number of chicks. It's kind of a slippery slope effect, but in a good way. The more girls you can get with, the more girls that will be availible as this raises your value.
 
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I like her a lot...I don't have any problems getting girls but then again I don't get more than the average guy, because I don't want to. Getting girls left right and centre doesn't appeal to me for some reason.But yeah I like the girl so mmuch its not even funny anymore
 

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just realize that as pessimistic as this sounds, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak, possibly. High school relationships rarely last long. I learned the hard way
 

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Thing is, now I have no idea who to game...

Got rid of oneitus for good, now I thing my standars are too high :S
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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to answer your original question, no theres nothing wrong with that. unless the guy gets really pissed and wants to kick your ass, but other than that, go for it
 

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Women want a guy with confidence and a guy who posses a challenge for them. Key word: CHALLENGE.There is no challenge if you are so easy to get, and most guys who have oneitis for a girl make themselves easy to get since they come on strong too soon. It turns them off.

Think about it. Would you HONESTLY go out with a girl who is so easy to get? Most people like to work hard for what they get. In short, it's normal to have oneitis for a girl, but you need to be careful of how you handle it.
 

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Does this challenge stuff really work in HS?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It works in and out of HS, it's a concept you will take with you forever.
Who does not want a challenge? No girl wants to go out with the easy guy, she will lose interest really fast. She wants to know she worked hard for what she got, so she's going to try her best to hold onto you, because she will remember all the effort she had to make to get you.

You tend to appreciate things when you work hard for them. That applies to HS for sure.
 
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