Bokanovsky
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I see. Yes, I misunderstood. So you're going go move to her muslim country??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ridiculous mother in law passport bro drama
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
We will see. Thats the plan but you know how life works. Murphys Law
Bokanovsky
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Stay safe, my friend.
Thank you . I know what I am doing is nuts. I am willing to gamble. I have a feeling it will work out. Or not. Either way I will keep yall posted.
Clockwerk50
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It sounds like you’re in her frame—living in her city, surrounded by her friends, family, culture, and her needs. There are also numerous logistical challenges and cultural pressures at play. Maybe it is time to step up as a leader, take control, and guide things in a way that balances both your needs and the circumstances you're facing.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Well I suspect its his cousin and knowing my straightforward attitude I think he avoids me as the plague right now.. it's oke tho.
He brought her here. Its a 180 from never having any woman and living at home at 35 to living together in a marriage. I don't say it can't work, but...I do have my opinion on whether a man without any game going all in like this is a good or a bad idea...
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I'm guessing this doesn't turn out the way you think it will in the end.
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Elaborate please bro
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You are doing a whole lot for "maybe's" and "we'll see's"
Thats life though. Everything is a maybe and well see when dealing with women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The 75% divorce rate did not turn out the way they wanted in the end. Aint no good scenerios. Atleast I have a fighting chance.
If I stay in the West im done for sure.
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Then only a fool would be spending thousands of dollars travelling all over and not having any solid plans of what the future will end up being if you are that unsure.
Lol ok then im a fool. Im not going to go into elaborate details on the internet. Why you so aggressive?