Bokanovsky
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I see. Yes, I misunderstood. So you're going go move to her muslim country??
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ridiculous mother in law passport bro drama
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
We will see. Thats the plan but you know how life works. Murphys Law
Bokanovsky
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Stay safe, my friend.
Thank you . I know what I am doing is nuts. I am willing to gamble. I have a feeling it will work out. Or not. Either way I will keep yall posted.
Clockwerk50
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It sounds like you’re in her frame—living in her city, surrounded by her friends, family, culture, and her needs. There are also numerous logistical challenges and cultural pressures at play. Maybe it is time to step up as a leader, take control, and guide things in a way that balances both your needs and the circumstances you're facing.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gamisch
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Well I suspect its his cousin and knowing my straightforward attitude I think he avoids me as the plague right now.. it's oke tho.
He brought her here. Its a 180 from never having any woman and living at home at 35 to living together in a marriage. I don't say it can't work, but...I do have my opinion on whether a man without any game going all in like this is a good or a bad idea...
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I'm guessing this doesn't turn out the way you think it will in the end.
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Elaborate please bro
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You are doing a whole lot for "maybe's" and "we'll see's"
Thats life though. Everything is a maybe and well see when dealing with women.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The 75% divorce rate did not turn out the way they wanted in the end. Aint no good scenerios. Atleast I have a fighting chance.
If I stay in the West im done for sure.
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Then only a fool would be spending thousands of dollars travelling all over and not having any solid plans of what the future will end up being if you are that unsure.
Lol ok then im a fool. Im not going to go into elaborate details on the internet. Why you so aggressive?