"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rich Men can they be AFC's?

kk2004

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This is what Paris Hilton Fiance said

"The magazine quoted Latsis as calling Hilton "the most beautiful woman I've ever met. I feel like the luckiest man in the world." " (yahoo atricle)

WTF, afc alert, why is he lucky, she should be lucky to have him. IS this a trend with most rich men. I alwasy had the idea that this world was full of DJ's especially those who where rich.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Oh no, quite the opposite actually. I've had serveal General Managers, CFOs & CEOs that I've worked for over the last 12 years, all of whom were multi-millionaires and in busniess respects they we're successes, but every one was a complete AFC and let women walk all over them in their personal lives. Each had a string of illegitimate children and divorces or were placating to women that use them as 'success objects.' In every instance they bought the AFC lifestyle, but were unwilling to hear anything different in this regard since they all percieved their business success earned them respect in this realm as well.

The man I work for at this moment is 64 y.o. and a millionaire several times over, but constantly drops these AFC lines about how "men will never understand women" when he discusses his personal life.
 

spider_007

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frst of all, anybody who is from hollywood, or sorounding area, is very likeley to be emotinaly out of place.

The reason I say that; Most peple there are actors, actors wanabe, musicions, models, artists......... and it is wery imotionaly straining for them. They have to pretend their whole lives. They have to project a certan persona and quality of life. It's the way they make a living. If you think the media is f-up, then you need to realize peple who make the thing are f-up too. One of the reasons why every actor has been divorced 2-3 times....Arnold is one of the exceptions...

As for rich peple in general, I'd say it's oposite. If the have money they think they are THE SH1T.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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