"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rich Men can they be AFC's?

kk2004

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This is what Paris Hilton Fiance said

"The magazine quoted Latsis as calling Hilton "the most beautiful woman I've ever met. I feel like the luckiest man in the world." " (yahoo atricle)

WTF, afc alert, why is he lucky, she should be lucky to have him. IS this a trend with most rich men. I alwasy had the idea that this world was full of DJ's especially those who where rich.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Oh no, quite the opposite actually. I've had serveal General Managers, CFOs & CEOs that I've worked for over the last 12 years, all of whom were multi-millionaires and in busniess respects they we're successes, but every one was a complete AFC and let women walk all over them in their personal lives. Each had a string of illegitimate children and divorces or were placating to women that use them as 'success objects.' In every instance they bought the AFC lifestyle, but were unwilling to hear anything different in this regard since they all percieved their business success earned them respect in this realm as well.

The man I work for at this moment is 64 y.o. and a millionaire several times over, but constantly drops these AFC lines about how "men will never understand women" when he discusses his personal life.
 

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frst of all, anybody who is from hollywood, or sorounding area, is very likeley to be emotinaly out of place.

The reason I say that; Most peple there are actors, actors wanabe, musicions, models, artists......... and it is wery imotionaly straining for them. They have to pretend their whole lives. They have to project a certan persona and quality of life. It's the way they make a living. If you think the media is f-up, then you need to realize peple who make the thing are f-up too. One of the reasons why every actor has been divorced 2-3 times....Arnold is one of the exceptions...

As for rich peple in general, I'd say it's oposite. If the have money they think they are THE SH1T.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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